I recently came across a cover story published in Woman's Day Magazine about tv presenter Catriona Rowntree. Last year Catriona, 38, was blessed to give birth to a healthy baby boy - her first child. Woman's Day did an interview with Catriona two and a half months after she gave birth. While one may have thought a weekly magazine aimed at women 30+ might have focused on the ups and downs of being a first time Mum and the joy Catriona must feel in starting a family - alas, no.
This obsession with new Mothers losing their post baby weight as quickly as possible is seriously concerning. At a time when a new Mum should be focused on nurturing, caring for and loving their baby, while simultaneously loving, nurturing and caring for themselves, they are now faced with the added pressure of needing to slide back into those skinny jeans asap. The message given out is that being a "yummy mummy" is THE most important aspect of Motherhood and that everything must be done to snap back to a pre-baby size. The pressure this must create for vulnerable women struggling with issues of body image and acceptance shouldn't be underestimated and could easily see them turn to dangerous diets, excessive exercise regimes or taking diet pills - all of which are not only harmful to a Mum - but harmful to a baby as well.
This excellent article "The Post-Pregnancy Weight-Loss Obsession" by Katie Gentile outlines that we "rarely see a picture of a pregnant celebrity without the requisite estimation of weight gain" and of course there are countless stories about how quickly model Mum's get themselves back on catwalks and star Mum's on the red carpet. The focus is weight, weight, weight, thin, thin, thin and glamour, glamour, glamour. Even when we see celebrity Mum's doing something everyday such as taking their children to school, the focus reported on is their appearance as is the case in this article which gives the impression that if your not a 'Yummy Mummy' you could well be a 'Slummy Mummy.' Talk about a kick in the post pregnancy belly.
If you ask me Kourtney looks absolutely stunning and has that beautiful post baby belly that all new Mum's have. OK Magazine should be outrageously ashamed of themselves for doing this to not only Kourtney, but in fact, their entire readership. It's a disgrace for a publication to try and falsely give the impression that a woman can give birth and then there be no evidence of that in her body. Kourtney's original photo is what women post pregnancy can look like for many, many weeks, even months, after they give birth. It should not be photoshopped away but instead celebrated and honoured as part of the process of becoming a Mother. We should see more 'real' photo's like this of new Mum's in the media like this one of a glowing Jools Oliver, wife of celebrity chef Jamie Oliver, pictured here after giving birth to her daughter Petal. Bless.