Highlights of the Week, What Blogging Entails, Unsolicited Help & Advice
Posted Apr 04 2010 11:56am
Happy Easter to Everyone Celebrating It! What Kind of Easter Celebrations and Plans have you had, or not had? We did a very low key Easter Basket from the Easter Bunny. The Dollar bins from Target served us well for the basket and the books and socks that Skylar recieved from the Easter Bunny. Perfect! I'll get pictures posted tomorrow.
How has your weekend been going so far other than Easter? I spent most of Saturday outside, and it was glorious! Saturday morning we went for a family power walk with Skylar in the stroller and it was so nice being outside because it definitely wasn't too hot, just perfect. Then, Scott volunteered to take Skylar to the park and I went to the Pool, alone! It was not crowded at all. And there's another family pool in my community so this was the low-key adults-only pool And I loved every second of magazine reading on my chaise lounge! Remember These ? I broke into the Hers, poolside, for an hour. An amazing 60 minutes, I tell ya! After the pool, I went for a run.
I am really thinking I am going to just Go For It with My Goal of likely Embarking upon a Fitness Competition and doing Bikini Shows !! So I figured there was no time like the present and it was a perfect day to bust out a 4 mile run. And I felt so fast and free. It was one of those runs that I could have ran about 10 miles. All the runners reading know what I'm talking about when the stars just gloriously align like that and you could run forever and never tire. Musta been all the poolside magazine reading..haha!
A mental shift occurred for me from being Vegan largely for Health Reasons (See This Post ) to also becoming a Vegan for Compassion .I am now firmly in the camp of both, whereas previously I used to consider myself much more entrenched in the former.
I asked Do you practice or follow the religion of your childhood if you were raised with a faith? Why or Why Not? Do you believe in the things your childhood faith suggests now that you are an adult?Or do you only identify with that faith because it's just "there", just "habit" or convenient? Do you fear disassociating yourself from your childhood faith because you fear offending your family members? There was a familiar trend that most people consider themselves spiritual rather than religious but read the comments for yourself because there were many different experiences represented.
Thursday the Give Away Ended. Did you Check and See Who Won
Yoga Today is Sirsasana (headstand) When going up into headstand, DO NOT DONKEY KICK UP! You need to go up slowly and with control;start in downward dog, make a crown for your head with your hands, and start to walk your toes forward, forward, til you go up, up, and away.No kicking up into headstand as it's a sure-fire way to fall and get injured, severely.
Questions 1. Best Thing You're Ate or Done So Far This Weekend? Best thing I've done was lay poolside and relax!A no brainer.
2. Easter Plans, Parties, Celebrations, or Family Fesitivities? Any family stress and drama involved? Anyone in your family "not get" why you're a healthy eater, why you're a vegetarian/vegan, why you don't want certain foods or HFCS-laden candy after dinner?Just wait til you have kids and random strangers hand out buckets of candy or relatives send it. Not that a few pieces is bad, but for a small child, a couple pieces is one thing, bags and bags of it is another. As I mentioned, we didn't have plans, and I love it!
I also touched upon Unsolicited Advice in reference to what I expect to receive if I were to post fitness progress pictures on my blog.
Well, it seems there was a alot of Unsolicited Advice out there in the Universe Waiting for me.The latest round of unsolicited advice was from from non-bloggers, most of whom also never leave me any positive comments on any of my posts, either. I don't think another blogger would ever write to another blogger in this fashion because we realize that in one "simple" blog post, there are these aspects:
On the Tech Side: Learning about all the technical aspects of blogging from how to drop in HTML Code, learning Blogger or WordPress' platforms, learning what self hosted vs. owning your own domain vs. or not means, learning how to drop in backgrounds and make layout changes. It goes on and on.
Recipe Development: For me, this is Hours!!! I don't just open a box and it eat. I make it from raw ingredients from the ground up. Just because you see a recipe on my blog, doesn't mean that it turned out that way the first time. I could have 20 hours, or more, and multiple efforts in the kitchen and lots of money in ingredients that you never see.
Grocery Shopping at multiple stores for Ingredients
Being in contact with various businesses and companies to keep Great Give Aways on my site for my readers to enjoy and to review products to suggest to my readers
Picture Taking and Uploading and Always carrying a camera: 50+ pics a day, every day. Period.
Writing the Actual Posts (2 hours per post, sounds excessive, and it is, because I make recipes and post them in a step by step fashion, provide link backs, link to others', it all takes time, and trust me, I am really trying to cut back because this is not always "fun", it's work)
Answering Readers Questions regarding Diet, Exercise, Raw Veganism, Food Allergies, Yoga Help, Recipe Help, Recipe Troubleshooting, you name it
Reading the Comments I Receive (probably the best part of blogging so this is a great one and because of course of all the great friends I've met and made in the 'sphere!)
Commenting on Other Blogger's Blogs and being a part of the 'Sphere; participating in the community (this can easily be Hours per day for me because I try to leave comments for the people who comment on my blog, however as my readership continues to grow and grow, this will not continue to be possible at all times, but I really try to be a good and supportive friend and blogger to others)
It goes on and on and on when running a blog...
So I realize that people really do have good intentions when they offer unsolicited suggestions about things they don't like about my blog, but I wonder if they realize that this is volunteer work and that all bloggers have lives and that blogging is volunteer work? There are a handful of bloggers who can make a living or at least make more than a few bucks a month at their blog but this is truly just a very select few.
For the rest of us who blog, we give freely of our time, energy, heart and soul, ideas, recipes, and we share our lives on a platter for the world to view and to evaluate or dare I say judge, as they wish. And yes, some don't like what we have to say or the way we live our lives or the manner in which I link back to old recipes or that I've been told I use "too much bold face type", but really, I try my best to give so much to everyone who reads my blog. I am so grateful for my readers and friends! You guys are why I continue to blog!
So I am surprised when people write to me to tell me things that are wrong with my blog or things they don't like. Not that I am too arrogant, or proud, or think I "know it all" to accept feedback because we can all always learn and improve! I don't want to give that impression that this happens a ton (it doesn't) or that I am not receptive to hearing suggestions, I just feel a little poked at and wonder how you handle criticism in general? How do you Deal with Unsolicited Advice? Do you react differently to unsolicited advice that you believe to be helpful vs. that which you feel is either irrelevant or petty?
Do Family Members or Well-Meaning Friends Give You Unsolicited Advice? Do you Enjoy It? Does it Make You Feel Glad that They Cared Enough to Tell You or Annoyed and the Implication that You Don't Know What You're Doing is There?
I can't wait to hear your answers and I hope you all have a wonderful day and I am off to spend time with my Family and enjoy this glorious weather!!!!!!! Thanks you guys for being great friends, readers, and I wish you all an awesome (Easter) Sunday!!!!!