Why?

As many of you know I was invited to be a guest blogger on a wellness blog. It isn't a blog I pay attention to very often but it does automatically publish my posts from this blog. Several months ago I published this post A Girl Without A Name. Apparently all these months later after writing this post someone read it that didn't like it and I received this comment yesterday on my wellness blog


FamilyCounselor
Please.
A rose by any other name is still a rose. Your name doesn't define who you are; your attitudes and actions do.
If you don't feel like you have any roots to the Freeman family, ask yourself if you had anything to do with that. Did you open your heart fully to them? Or did you take the TV approach to in-laws, and constantly criticize them? You are not a "victim". Own your role in your marriage's failure, and vow to learn from your mistakes and change yourself, instead of harping on what your ex needs to change.
If you love your kids, don't bad-talk your ex or gossip about him.
And for the love of Pete do NOT blog about your "feelings" so the whole world can see your dirty laundry. Protect your family's privacy and try to maintain some dignity.

Family Counselor created a profile yesterday on the wellness blog just to leave a comment and bash me. Anonymously bash me! I have a public blog and I welcome comments but own them. I own every word that I write. Like I have said this blog belongs to me. It is not a forum for bashing others, it is my perspective of my life, and my experiences. If you don't like it don't read it.

Funny thing just today though I got hits on that post and this blog from all the areas that my ex's family lives! I am finally feeling happy after a long time of not. Joe is happy after a long time of not! Even though he and I will never agree on how our marriage went down, I wish him well. So again, please do not read this blog if you don't like what I write about. Also here is my personal email - karlafreeman@gmail.com. If you have a question for me or you want to tell me off, own it, don't be a coward! I am an open book you have a question I will give you all the answers you want. Just be prepared you probably don't want to know the truth! Otherwise can you just leave me alone and let me just finally be happy with my kiddos and the new people in my life!

Thanks,


P.S. I don't think I am a victim, but I do know the truth, do you FamilyCounselor? I own every part of my marriage, but since you weren't in it you have no idea what I lived or what these children lived, who by the way are actual victims!