Gretchen Rubin (author of the upcoming book The Happiness Project ) describes in her post How To Be Happier – in Four Easy Lessons the series of truths she came up with from a study of Buddhism.
Her First Splendid Truth: “To be happier, you have to think about feeling good, feeling bad, and feeling right, in an atmosphere of growth.”
And her Fourth Splendid Truth is “You’re not happy unless you think you’re happy. corollary: You’re happy if you think you’re happy.”
Part of Drew Barrymore’s charm is her willingness to be goofy.
In his interview article The Truth Behind The Smile, Kevin Sessums asked her: “There seems to be a willfulness to your happiness.”
“I so appreciate your saying that,” Barrymore responded, “because that is exactly what it feels like to me. It feels as if I’m willing myself to be happy. I do feel as if I am thrusting myself forward all the time. Nancy, who runs my company and is my favorite person I’ve met in my life so far, had on her refrigerator the sign HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE.
“When I first saw it, I thought, ‘That is so simple and yet complex and wise.’ As you can see, I get verklempt just talking about it,” she says, using the Yiddish word for “emotional.” Her eyes well up.
Barrymore mentions other signs of being intense and highly sensitive.
“I don’t know if I’m completely comfortable ever,” she says. “Sometimes I can totally let go with complete abandon—sing and dance and run around and not care what people think about me. Still, there seems to be this ball of stress inside me that I can’t get rid of.”
She refers to her directorial debut movie, Whip It – an exciting and moving drama about women’s roller derby, with dynamic actors including Barrymore, Ellen Page, Marcia Gay Harden, Kristen Wiig and Juliette Lewis.
“I’ve stopped believing in happy endings,” Barrymore says.
“I’ve started believing in good days. At the end of my movie, there’s honesty. There’s truth. There’s peace.
“What tomorrow will bring is still in question. There is a joy that’s earned by failure or triumph. All those things add up to teach us, if we are open to it.”
So what do you think? How much of our happiness is up to our choices of thinking and attitudes and behavior?
Related:
Positive Psychology quotes, books
Buddhist psychology
Highly Sensitive
happiness research, authentic happiness, positive psychology, emotional intelligence, positive emotion, happiness books
Her First Splendid Truth: “To be happier, you have to think about feeling good, feeling bad, and feeling right, in an atmosphere of growth.”
And her Fourth Splendid Truth is “You’re not happy unless you think you’re happy. corollary: You’re happy if you think you’re happy.”
Part of Drew Barrymore’s charm is her willingness to be goofy.
In his interview article The Truth Behind The Smile, Kevin Sessums asked her: “There seems to be a willfulness to your happiness.”
“When I first saw it, I thought, ‘That is so simple and yet complex and wise.’ As you can see, I get verklempt just talking about it,” she says, using the Yiddish word for “emotional.” Her eyes well up.
Barrymore mentions other signs of being intense and highly sensitive.
“I don’t know if I’m completely comfortable ever,” she says. “Sometimes I can totally let go with complete abandon—sing and dance and run around and not care what people think about me. Still, there seems to be this ball of stress inside me that I can’t get rid of.”
“I’ve stopped believing in happy endings,” Barrymore says.
“I’ve started believing in good days. At the end of my movie, there’s honesty. There’s truth. There’s peace.
“What tomorrow will bring is still in question. There is a joy that’s earned by failure or triumph. All those things add up to teach us, if we are open to it.”
So what do you think? How much of our happiness is up to our choices of thinking and attitudes and behavior?
Related:
Positive Psychology quotes, books
Buddhist psychology
Highly Sensitive
happiness research, authentic happiness, positive psychology, emotional intelligence, positive emotion, happiness books