10 "Rules of Life" from Tolstoy. What Are Your Rules?
Posted Jan 26 2011 3:07pm
Every Wednesday is Tip Day, or List Day.
This Wednesday: 10 "Rules of Life" from Tolstoy.
I have a love/hate relationship with Tolstoy. I love his fiction, and for that reason keep feeling compelled to learn more about his life, but then am driven away by his faults. I should stay away from Tolstoy biographies and just read his novels.
In any event, for happiness-project purposes, Tolstoy is particularly fascinating -- both because he wrote so extensively about happiness and because he made and broke so many resolutions himself. Spectacularly.
In Henri Troyat's biography, Tolstoy , which I haven't been able to finish yet, because I find Tolstoy so maddening, Troyat includes an excerpt from Tolstoy's "Rules of Life" (I'm still trying to get my hands on the whole list). Tolstoy wrote these rules when he was eighteen years old:
Get up early (five o’clock)
Go to bed early (nine to ten o’clock)
Eat little and avoid sweets
Try to do everything by yourself
Have a goal for your whole life, a goal for one section of your life, a goal for a shorter period and a goal for the year; a goal for every month, a goal for every week, a goal for every day, a goal for every hour and for evry minute, and sacrifice the lesser goal to the greater
Keep away from women
Kill desire by work
Be good, but try to let no one know it
Always live less expensively than you might
Change nothing in your style of living even if you become ten times richer
Apart from the specifics of this particular list, I'm always interested to see when great minds take this approach. Taking the time to write your resolutions, or your personal manifesto , is an endeavor that can help us be more aware of the elements of a happy life. Everyone's list of rules would be different; certainly Tolstoy's list reflects him.
Have you written your own Rules of Life, or manifesto, or the like? Has it helped you better to live up to your own standards for yourself?
GOLD STAR to anyone who can find the complete list online. I looked everywhere, but so far, no luck. I think I'll have to go get Volume 46 of the Tolstoy Complete Works from the New York Public Library one day soon.