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in which I don’t act out this morning by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex Evenings are the worst. Last night we laid in bed and talked, and while it’s good to talk, I think we’re going to switch to “news, sports, weather” for a little whil ... Read on »
this morning’s musings by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I often feel worse after going to a meeting. I come home more alone and ashamed. I come home isolated. This is my husband’s observation (side note – when things aren ... Read on »
How to become overwhelmed by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I’ve been working for my husband for a few years now in his business. Like many wives, I keep the books and pay the bills while he performs the work that actually ge ... Read on »
A recipe for relapse by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I still can’t believe I lost my sobriety. I was at an AA meeting two days ago where someone shared that she “knew, just knew” that she had taken her last drink. Evid ... Read on »
Easy Does It by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex Well, today is better than yesterday was. I’m thinking about doing a 90 in 90 (that’s going to 90 AA meetings in 90 days) but I don’t know. Yes it’s true that re ... Read on »
A brand new day by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex Almost 24 hours. Time to get the heck out of the house because unlike yesterday, today I’m feeling pretty awful about what I did and I’ve been me long enough ... Read on »
No picture today. Just the facts by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I want to sincerely thank everyone who posted and emailed me. I was surprised that anyone cared and . . . well . . . thank you. It means a lot that other people care ... Read on »
Relapsed by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I relapsed. And the thing that bothers me the most is that I have my (old) sobriety date engraved on my keyring. I don’t really care all that much though, ... Read on »
I just want to be normal by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I’ve been really busy but saying I’ve been too busy to blog would be a lie. After all, I’ve had time to read something like 30 books (at least) since my last ... Read on »
Holy Crap – Did I Really Draw That? by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I was just going through some of the images I’ve used on this blog. One of them is a the beginning of a “trauma egg” I posted to give people an idea of what they look like ... Read on »
Mental Maps by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I’m re-reading two books that have been a tremendous help to me in my recovery, Deep Survival and Everyday Survival. Both are by Laurence Gonzales . “ ... Read on »
I Had Sex with My Therapist by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I had sex with my therapist (phone sex) and it was one of the worst things that has ever happened to me. Being molested by my grandfather did not do as much ... Read on »
Addiction? Compulsion? Excuse? by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I thought sex addiction was an excuse, not a real disease. Cheat on your spouse? That’s okay because you can’t help it if you’re a sex addict. Surf Internet p ... Read on »
Recovery = Freedom to Choose by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex One of the reasons it’s easier to get sober in rehab is there’s no drug there. For sex addicts that means no magazines, no TV, no computers, no phones. Ther ... Read on »
When your inner compass is broken by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex Trying to control my emotions did not work for me. But this was one of the most difficult surrenders of my recovery because there are a whole bunch of fe ... Read on »
Self Care by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex Sometimes I think I must just be a complete sissy when it comes to dealing with stress because honestly, life is good. My family is healthy, we have enough money, and the ... Read on »
Just for the rest of today. by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex It’s good to have a sponsor’s voice rattling around in your brain when things get squirrelly. Today, I was searching for a hi-res scanned image of balsa w ... Read on »
Paparazzi by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex I was standing in line at the grocery store tonight staring at the stupid tabloids and a stupid photo of a rehab facility where a celebrity is supposedly being tre ... Read on »
Merry Christmas by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex Merry Christmas from an atheist in recovery. Read on »
The Outer Circle – Part 2 by GentlePath Posted in: Blog Posts in Relationships & Sex We’re headed into the holiday season here in the States, which is a challenging time for all of us, addicts and “normies” alike. So it’s a good time to be writing part 2 o ... Read on »