(Bob Aronson, the author of this blog, received a new heart on August 21, 2007)
April is National Donate Life Month in the U.S. It is a time for us to not only become donors but to also encourage others to do the same. The 18 people who die every day while waiting for an organ is a national disgrace.
Brotherly love is a concept repeated often not only in the old and new testament http://www.eliyah.com/brother.html but in every other religion as well. How does the concept apply to your life, do you pay lip service to it, or do you live it?
If you were dying from organ failure would you accept a new organ from a total stranger? If you answered, “Yes,” then it seems logical that a total stranger would accept an organ from you.
The greatest ethical code ever written consists of just ten words, “Do unto others what you would have done unto you.” A variation of these words exists in almost every religion http://www.religioustolerance.org/reciproc.htm . With that in mind, how can anyone possibly choose not to be an organ donor? It is the neighborly thing to do, it is the right thing to do and, it is the ethical thing to do.
Polls show that over 90% of us are in favor of organ donation but only about 35% actually become donors. By not “Getting around to it” you have checked the “No” box on the registration form. In light of “Brotherly love,” and, “The Golden Rule,” is “NO” really your preference? Do you really want to take your organs and tissue to the grave while thousands of people die waiting for them?
Organ donors are among the real heroes of our society. They have made a conscious decision to help others live. Living donors make a tangible sacrifice; they give up a part or parts of their bodies and undergo many inconveniences and some expense to do so. Donor families often make their decision in the presence of a dying loved one.
All too often people who are not registered organ donors die and their families must make the donation decision under great emotional stress. Among these families are parents who agree to share their loved one in order to save lives. Sometime the loved one is a child. I cannot even begin to empathize with the rush of emotion they must feel. Saying, “No” would be the easy thing to say.
I have a Facebook page called, Organ Transplant Patients, Families and Friends a site with thousands of members who share their thoughts, emotions and opinions with the rest of us. Following are some comments (edited for brevity) from people who willingly gave permission to recover life-giving organs.
My daughter (December 16, 1983 to December 10 2006 was an organ an tissue donor she saved lives. I know you are in heaven, you are my angel. Rest in peace. Love an miss you sweetie every day. Please be an organ donor.
We make a great family don’t we. My daughter 29th Oct 1983 -6th Sept 2004, saved 4 lives here in Australia.
She is in heaven…She’s in the same place as my husband, he too was an Organ Donor saving 4 people here in Illinois.
I am also the mother of an organ donor…my son, Patrick saved 7 lives and made a difference in 3 others.
My daughter was also an organ donor. By giving, our daughter made a difference in someone’s life.
I… donated a kidney to my friend 6 weeks ago and it was the absolute most life-changing experience of my life. It was amazing! The Lord is the One who set the whole plan in motion and ordered every step throughout the evaluation process and surgery. God bless you.
And — there are grateful organ recipients, too.
Thank you for your wonderful gift of life. If it wasn’t for generous people like you…I wouldn’t be here today:) I am a liver transplant recipient and waiting for a kidney. Love & God Bless
I am very, very sorry for the loss of your daughter. It is so scary for me to even think about. THANKS SO MUCH for making the decision to donate all of her organs. She’s definitely an angel living on in many. My aunt is waiting on a lung transplant…which, of course, is bittersweet. Bless you and your family!
My daughter was killed in a car accident 17 years ago at the age of 14. She was an organ and tissue donor, too. We can help others to understand the importance of making the decision to become an organ and tissue donor.
You are my hero for donating her organs. My husband and I are waiting for our hero. My husband has been… on the liver transplant list for 3 years now. Words will never be enough for what you have done. May God bless you and your family. Love and prayers.
May god continue to bless your family. My brother received the gift of a kidney many years ago. We never knew the circumstances as to how we received it but we give many thanks to the family out there who made the conscious decision to donate. Thank You.
After having read the comments from these wonderful, caring people, shouldn’t you be a donor, too? If you are already a donor what are you doing to get others to emulate your action? If you don’t know how to become an advocate for organ donation call your local Organ Procurement Organization and ask for their advice. Or — you can leave a comment here and/or join Organ Transplant Patients, Families and Friends http://tinyurl.com/225cfhand become part of the discussion. I know you will get lots of advice and make many new friends.