Introduction by Bob Aronson (Attribution is given with each quote)
S ometimes the saying the right thing in the right tone at the right time can have a powerful impact, but often search as we may, we cannot find the right words within us. That is when the search area must be expanded to those who may have had similar experiences, but also the time to weigh and articulate their thoughts — thoughts that clearly express your feelings. While ironic, it is also a fact of life that often those most quoted are those who quote most often.
There is no harm done in quoting others to help you make your point,. There is only good to be found when the well considered words of another help you to find peace and give comfort. It is in that spirit that we offer this collection of inspirational quotes about Kindness, Courage and Compassion. They are among my favorites. I hope you like them, too.
Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a harder battle.”
“Dare to Be
When a new day begins, dare to smile gratefully.
When there is darkness, dare to be the first to shine a light.
When there is injustice, dare to be the first to condemn it.
When something seems difficult, dare to do it anyway.
When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back.
When there seems to be no hope, dare to find some.
When you’re feeling tired, dare to keep going.
When love hurts you, dare to love again.
When someone is hurting, dare to help them heal.
When another is lost, dare to help them find the way.
When a friend falls, dare to be the first to extend a hand.
When you cross paths with another, dare to make them smile.
When you feel great, dare to help someone else feel great too.
When the day has ended, dare to feel as you’ve done your best.
Dare to be the best you can –At all times, Dare to be!”
“If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other.” ― Mother Teresa
“for there is nothing heavier than compassion. Not even one’s own pain weighs so heavy as the pain one feels with someone, for someone, a pain intensified by the imagination and prolonged by a hundred echoes.” ― Milan Kundera , The Unbearable Lightness of Being
“In the end, though, maybe we must all give up trying to pay back the people in this world who sustain our lives. In the end, maybe it’s wiser to surrender before the miraculous scope of human generosity and to just keep saying thank you, forever and sincerely, for as long as we have voices.” ― Elizabeth Gilbert , Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman’s Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia
“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.” ― Leo Buscaglia
“Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, it’s at the end of your arm, as you get older, remember you have another hand: The first is to help yourself, the second is to help others.” ― Sam Levenson
Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that
“A ship is safe in harbor, but that’s not what ships are for.” William G.T. Shedd
“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.” Anaïs Nin
“Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear – not absence of fear.” Mark Twain
“Freedom lies in being bold.” Robert Frost
“For me, I am driven by two main philosophies: know more today about the world than I knew yesterday and lessen the suffering of others. You’d be surprised how far that gets you.” ― Neil deGrasse Tyson
“The lotus is the most beautiful flower, whose petals open one by one. But it will only grow in the mud. In order to grow and gain wisdom, first you must have the mud — the obstacles of life and its suffering. … The mud speaks of the common ground that humans share, no matter what our stations in life. … Whether we have it all or we have nothing, we are all faced with the same obstacles: sadness, loss, illness, dying and death. If we are to strive as human beings to gain more wisdom, more kindness and more compassion, we must have the intention to grow as a lotus and open each petal one by one. ” ― Goldie Hawn
“How much can we ever know about the love and pain in another heart? How much can we hope to understand those who have suffered deeper anguish, greater deprivation, and more crushing disappointments than we ourselves have known?” ― Orhan Pamuk , Snow
“Some people think only intellect counts: knowing how to solve problems, knowing how to get by, knowing how to identify an advantage and seize it. But the functions of intellect are insufficient without courage, love, friendship, compassion, and empathy.” ― Dean Koontz
“True compassion is more than flinging a coin to a beggar; it comes to see that an edifice which produces beggars needs restructuring. ” ― Martin Luther King Jr.
“Love is not patronizing and charity isn’t about pity, it is about love. Charity and love are the same — with charity you give love, so don’t just give money but reach out your hand instead.” ― Mother Teresa
“You have not lived today until you have done something for someone who can never repay you.” ― John Bunyan
Let us not underestimate how hard it is to be compassionate. Compassion is hard because it requires the inner disposition to go with others to place where they are weak, vulnerable, lonely, and broken. But this is not our spontaneous response to suffering. What we desire most is to do away with suffering by fleeing from it or finding a quick cure for it.” ― Henri J.M. Nouwen
“The thought manifests the word
The word manifests the deed;
The deed develops into habit;
Do not oppress the widow, the fatherless, the sojourner, or the poor, and let none of you devise evil against another in your heart. echariah 7:10
“The only time you look in your neighbor’s bowl is to make sure that they have enough. You don’t look in your neighbor’s bowl to see if you have as much as them.” ― Louis C.K.
“Protect your enthusiasm from the negativity and fear of others. Never decide to do nothing just because you can only do little. Do what you can. You would be surprised at what “little” acts have done for our world.” ― Steve Maraboli
When asked what was the greatest commandment, Jesus responded that it is to love God with all our heart, mind and strength. But He added that the second commandment “is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself’” ( Matthew 22:34-40 ). The Pharisee had asked Him which single command of God is the greatest, but Jesus provided two, stating not only what we are to do, but also how to do it. To love our neighbor as ourselves is the natural result of our loving devotion toward God.
“The nature of compassion isn’t coming to terms with your own suffering and applying it to others: It’s knowing that other folks around you suffer and, no matter what happens to you, no matter how lucky or unlucky you are, they keep suffering. And if you can do something about that, then you do it, and you do it without whining or waving your own fuckin’ cross for the world to see. You do it because it’s the right thing to do.” ― John Connolly , Dark Hollow
“Be kind to people whether they deserve your kindness or not. If your kindness reaches the deserving good for you if your kindness reaches the undeserving take joy in your compassion.”
“[The] insistence on the absolutely indiscriminate nature of compassion within the Kingdom is the dominant perspective of almost all of Jesus’ teaching.
What makes the Kingdom come is heartfelt compassion: a way of tenderness that knows no frontiers, no labels, no compartmentalizing, and no sectarian divisions.” ― Brennan Manning , Abba’s Child: The Cry of the Heart for Intimate Belonging
“These things will destroy the human race: politics without principle, progress without compassion, wealth without work, learning without silence, religion without fearlessness, and worship without awareness.” ― Anthony de Mello
“When morality comes up against profit, it is seldom that profit loses.” ― Shirley Chisholm
Enlightened leadership is spiritual if we understand spirituality not as some kind of religiou
Never apologize for showing feeling, my friend. Remember that when you do so, you apologize for truth. Benjamin Disraeli, in Contarini Fleming :
A good character is the best tombstone. Those who loved you and were helped by you will remember you when forget-me-nots have withered. Carve your name on hearts, not on marble. ~Charles H. Spurgeon
Never miss an opportunity to make others happy, even if you have to leave them alone in order to do it. ~Author Unknown
Don’t wait for people to be friendly, show them how. ~Author Unknown
You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson
There’s a lot of not caring that goes under the name of minding your own business. ~Robert Brault, rbrault.blogspot.com
The only people with whom you should try to get even are those who have helped you. ~John E. Southard