Parents: How To Avoid Passing Dental Fear On To Your Kids
Posted Jan 16 2013 12:51pm
Some of the most fun times at our practice are when kids come in for their check ups.
Whether they’re shy, playful or loud and chatty, they bring smiles all around (it’s hard not to when you’re so darn cute).
Beyond fun, what we love even more is the opportunity to give them a positive, happy dental experience. There’s no better opportunity to make a good impression as when they’re young and, well, impressionable.
Unfortunately, many adults have experienced the opposite. Going to the dentist was scary , boring or just plain unpleasant, planting the seed of fear that few can shake off over the years, despite numerous advances.
Today, dentistry is more comfortable than ever before, from
But mostly, we care a whole lot more about your comfort.
Regardless, as parents, we always aim to do better for our children. In terms of establishing good habits, one of the best things we can do is to NOT pass on our fears to them. It doesn’t matter if it’s the taste of broccoli (yum, in my opinion!), a fear of heights or, going to the dentist.
If we encourage good habits in our children and do so in a positive light, they will not only be better received but practiced more authentically.
Which is exactly why this is so important. If you had a not-so-great experience with your dentist, passing dental fear on to your kids will only continue the negative cycle.
Using a dental visit as a “threat”: if you don’t behave, I’ll take you to the dentist,be ready, it’ll hurt or I always hated the dentist...comments such as these may sound innocent enough but children, especially as young as 2 or 3, take them to heart. Already, going to the dentist or brushing their teeth becomes a punishment rather than part of taking care of themselves.
Instead, using positive reinforcement , prizes or treats for a job well done, as well as oohing and aahing about healthy, bright and shiny teeth can be a better alternative.
These little steps can go so far in breaking the negative cycle. Kids start appreciating the value of oral health, and establishing good habits that last for life.
Every day is a new opportunity to start fresh. Let’s take the positive approach and get our children started on a path to a lifetime of great oral health.
If you’re ready to get your kids off to a great start on their oral health (and have fun while doing it), call or email us: