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Secrets to Sexual Orgasms

Posted Mar 21 2010 2:42am

Sex was once one of the best kept secrets in the world. We whispered about it behind closed doors, in the dark, if it was discussed at all. Today, that is no longer the case. Sex is discussed everywhere. Unfortunately, there are still some secrets, especially when it comes to sexual orgasms, which are not openly and widely discussed.

Secrets to sexual orgasms

Secrets to Sexual Orgasms for Women

It is a proven, scientific fact that foreplay is essential if a woman is going to have sexual orgasms. It simply takes longer for a woman to get in the mood, sexually, and to enjoy the physical feelings that result from sex.

Women are also more likely to experience strong orgasms when true emotion is involved in the relationship, such as love. This should be two sided emotion, because she will get greater joy from sex, and experience sexual orgasms more often if she feels love, and feels loved as well. The joy that is derived from sex is more physical for men, in nature, and more emotional for women.

Secrets to Sexual Orgasms for Men

Emotion matters very little for men when it comes to sexual pleasure. This is not meant to be derogatory towards men – it is just a natural fact. The friction involved during the sex act brings pleasure for both genders, but for men, it is this friction that results in a sexual orgasm, whereas for women, the friction doesn’t necessary play a big role in orgasms.

Because the pleasure derived from sex comes from the physical friction, but from the emotions for women, women are generally able to have multiple sexual orgasms during one sexual episode, while men only have one, which results in the ejaculation of semen from the penis.

While emotion doesn’t play a big role in sex for men, attraction does. The male must be able to obtain an erection if he is to have sex, and if he is to have a sexual orgasm. Without a physical attraction, neither of these things can happen.

Communication and Honesty – the Two Biggest Secrets to Sexual Orgasms

The biggest obstacle to sexual orgasms that men and women face is the inability to communicate effectively and honestly. In a partnership, whether that partnership is an opposite sex relationship or a same-sex relationship, nobody can read minds. One partner doesn’t know what satisfies the other without open communication about sex, and complete honesty during that communication. Naturally, the other partner must be willing to absorb what the other is saying if he or she is to be a part of sexual orgasms.

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