I’m on my trip! What an adventure!
It took a whole lot longer to get out of Ohio than I wanted it to because I was too attached to doing various chores I’d had in mind before I realized I couldn’t tolerate the local environment. I was also a bit wary of camping by myself, and for an extended period, having done nothing more than an overnight or weekend trip in the past. But because I had travelled alone to
Online and through telephone calls, I asked for advice from others with this illness who had explored camping as an intermediate step. I took into account many of their recommendations. One was to get a portable car refrigerator/freezer. That took several days of research, since I didn’t know anything about them and couldn’t go into a store to see one. I discarded models with bad reviews, those that produced a lot of heat, and those which could only lower food to 30 or 40 degrees below the outdoor temperature since I remembered the 100 degree summer heat and wanted my food colder than 60 degrees! I compared the power consumption of these machines since mine would be running on my car battery while I drive and, if I ended up at a campsite without electric power, on a portable 12 volt battery. The brand everyone recommends as the most reliable and energy efficient is Engel.
Engle has an awesome video of two frustrated bears trying to break into one of their coolers. They stomp on it and claw at it to no avail. But what sold me on Engel – since I don’t plan to go into bear country and if I did, would not leave my cooler out on a deserted field--was the Engel model with a freezer setting. One of the biggest nuisances of camping this summer was having to buy ice, drain the melting ice from the cooler, stuff it in and keep rearranging the food. Instead, with my little freezer, I’ll rotate freezer packs in and out of the cooler. A little thermostat with a probe inserts in the cooler with a digital readout of the temperature to tell me when it gets too warm inside. My food and refrigerated meds will be a whole lot safer, and when I use up all the frozen food I bought, I can set the Engel on refrigerate and dispense with ice packs and cooler if I keep my food plan simple.
My second purchase was a gel battery to charge the refrigerator and my laptop when AC power is not available, since both work either on AC or 12 volt DC current. A friend and my husband hooked up the socket that looks like a cigarette lighter to the battery.
Next on the list was a solar charger. A friend recommended a nifty, 80 watt portable solar panel that comes in an aluminum case made by Solarland. I found it online for under $500. I was glad my birthday was coming in a few days because I knew I could expect a nice check to help cover these expenses.
Last was a Targus 12 volt charger for my laptop in the hope that I could use my time alone at a campsite to write, read, blog, e-mail, and skype friends and family even if AC current was not available.
I think I flipped a bit on having DC current because our summer experience in
After ordering all this stuff, I had to wait for it to arrive by UPS or Fedex. Aaargh! The fridge arrived Thursday. I verified that I could lift it in and out of the car without assistance. The laptop charger arrived Saturday. I felt like a race horse chomping at the bit waiting for the solar panel, which was promised by the end of the week but didn’t show up..
I was also starting to get nervous. Each week at home my health steadily declined. If I got any worse, I wouldn’t be strong enough to take the trip. My mother was calling everyday in tears begging me not to go alone. David volunteered to accompany me for the first few days. I promised to stay at a campground with a lodge so I wouldn’t be alone.
Then disaster struck! I crashed.
We all know what a CFS/ME or CIRS crash feels like. And once it starts, there is no telling how long and how far the fall will be. The symptoms vary from one person to another but for me, symptoms are pain in soles of feet and legs leading to inability to stand, mental confusion, crazy moods and thoughts including suicidal ideation, dry mouth, and an inner feeling of every nerve cell in my body trembling.
I went into fear and self-pity, wallowed around for awhile, then got a grip on reality. I have power, I realized, even if I don’t have total control. The energy transmissions I’ve received from Guruji Mahendra Trivedi have increased my self-healing ability. I can make choices about my thoughts, my feelings, and my actions. I need not hang out with thoughts and feelings that don’t serve my goals, even if they pass through my consciousness briefly. For all kinds of things pass through our minds, just as millions of sounds and images pass through our senses and we learn to focus on those that interest us while discarding the rest.
How often do you notice the hum of the refrigerator motor? Do you hear the crickets outside, the traffic, the distant lawnmowers, the chirping of birds? When it gets quiet, and when our brain quiets down, we hear the sound of our breath and our heartbeat, sounds which are always present but rarely in our consciousness. Similarly, when we look at the world around us, we focus in on what we are looking for, and rarely if ever notice details that aren’t important.
So I shifted my consciousness. And soon I was feeling alive to the pulse of divine energy running through me. My mood lifted, and I also got clarity about the cause of my crash, but I’ll get to that later. I felt strong enough to get out of the tent. I took great care that evening to lie down as much as possible. I also took a GABA enhancer (alprazolam = Xanax) early in the evening to offset the excitability and high stress hormones. I drank a lot of water.
Because I still felt weak the next morning, I had to walk a fine line between getting things ready for the trip and preventing any exacerbation of symptoms. The solar panels arrived Monday and my belly tightened: how was I going to fit everything into the car? It would be a very tight squeeze! And they were so heavy and hard to carry.
To simplify my trip West, I looked online for allergy-free hotel rooms and located one in
Although there are lots of uncertainties with this illness, I feel very blessed from the good fortune of meeting Trivedi and responding to the energy he transmits through blessings. While these blessings haven’t restored me to health – as I initially hoped they would from the scientific data supporting the responses of trees, plants, chickens, and test-tube microorganisms to this energy – they have done many remarkable things for me. In addition to increasing calmness, steadfastness, and fearlessness, the blessings have made me more aware of my inner truth, what Trivedi calls “our inner GPS.” And so, as I listened and waited for guidance about the crash, I recognized a probable cause in a change in my home environment and knew, with unwavering firmness, that it was a strong contributing factor.
We had opened the plastic Zipwall between the living room and the rest of the house. The living room was the only room that hadn’t been thoroughly cleaned and fogged with Aerosolver. It still had some of the old toxic dust in it, dust that had contributed to my illness of many years because of its composition of fungal and bacterial fragments, dust mites, and microscopic particles capable of entering through the lungs and the nasal passages. I had seen dust on the glass tables, and asked the cleaning woman to dust and vacuum the room. For the next twelve hours, I had felt somewhat hyper. At the time I thought I might be getting nervous about the trip, but in retrospect, I saw this as the beginning of the reaction that led to the crash.
In Surviving Mold, Ritchie Shoemaker describes the process through which CIRS develops as he follows patients who, for legal reasons, need to reenter buildings that made them sick to document, through the various biomarkers I described in a previous post (March) titled Is CFS CIRS? Here is how I understand it (without the benefit of the book nearby to consult).
When biotoxins come into the body (whether mold, bacterial, maybe also chemical), the immune system kicks into gear by increasing inflammatory chemokines and cytokines. If the body fails to bind those toxins/antigens and eliminate them, inflammation increases. Some of the inflammation gets out of hand, such as high IL-10 which works against the process of binding antigen. Soon various hormones are secreted to regulate the reckless inflammation. One of the most important is cortisol, (which is why Docs give out a cortisol analogue, prednisone, to reduce inflammation for poison ivy, asthma, swelling, and itching.) Cortisol competes with aldosterone at receptor sites. With aldosterone being the steroid that regulates salt and water retention, the pituitary hormone vasopressin declines, making urination more urgent, more frequent, and urine more watery. In addition, some of the products of inflammation stimulate an increase in leptin which further lowers levels of MSH (melanocyte stimulating hormone), the one that keeps us happy with endorphins and sleeping soundly with our own melatonin. In sum, no sleep, stressed, peeing a lot, grumpy or worse, increase pain.
Sicker quicker. It takes longer to develop this pattern in the first place, but once it has happened, we’re like ‘recovered’ alcoholics who return to drinking and find themselves as bad or worse then they were before they stopped. Similarly, even if it took a large quantity of toxin to make me sick in the first place, now I can fall back to the same dysfunctional level with a tiny amount, a small enough amount to be left in the cracks of living room furniture, floor boards, and lamps.
Knowing that departure was critical, I agreed to my mother’s pleas to take David with me on the trip. He had been feeling worried and stressed, so much so that he had come down with classic symptoms of a heart attack –chest pain, reflux and digestive discomfort, and
fatigue. I sat under the tarp on a damp cushion in the gray
We had one day to fit everything into my car, now with the added challenge of David’s suitcase, sleeping pad and blankets, and additional food. He fit everything together like a jigsaw puzzle, adding a difficult piece at the end, moving something to another place that didn’t fit perfectly.
To add to our stress, our realtor called at 5 pm Wednesday to ask if she could show the house the next day (it would be our 2nd showing since listing in April), and we rushed around putting things away and leaving the kitchen cleaner than we normally would. In the end, we pulled out late for a long trip (10 am), but we reached our destination in
The Hyatt’s respire room was not ideal and I got reactive. Housekeeping had promised to wash my sheets in just water (no fragrant soaps), but I could smell bleach in the sheets or blanket near my nose. The air filter kept the air much cleaner than a normal room, but the carpeting and a huge stuffed chair with ottoman harbored the kind of fine dust that may trigger me. Our trip to Whole Foods exposed me to a nosefull of chlorine bleach as I passed the fish counter. It was no surprise that sleep was difficult and fretful all during the night. But thankfully, I wasn’t as bad as I’ve been in other hotel rooms. I would definitely try another Hyatt respire room, but I’d try to find one with hardwood floors and ask in advance for upholstered chairs to be removed from the room before it was cleaned.
The next morning we headed south on I-44 to a campground near