So, it didn't do the trick for totally sleeping through the night, but it did knock out one of the nighttime wakings. Thank the sweet oatmeal lord! I feel asleep before AI/Lost started, slept in front of the TV until 10ish, woke up, got in bed and slept until three ~ uninterrupted. YAY! I was able to put her back in her crib (she's such a snuggle bug and loves to be in our bed) and we didn't hear from her again until A was up at 7. Hey, it may not be ideal, but it's progress. Tonight ~ two packets of oatmeal. LOL!
On the drinking front ~ we're still working, but she is taking cow's milk from her HoneyBear cup. Slowly and not enough to really satisfy me that she's getting all the fluids she needs that way, but, again, it's progress. I dropped one daytime feed yesterday + the nighttime one, so we're down to three. We'll see how this goes for a bit and maybe next week (or earlier), I'll be able to drop another daytime feed.