When I first told my husband we weren’t giving out candy for Halloween, he thought I had thoroughly lost my mind. I certainly didn’t want our house to be one of those places that kids complain about, but I figured a few yo-yos or rubber duckies might be a nice change from 101 mini-chocolate bars. Besides, I knew too well that having all the candy around was a temptation that I just didn’t need or want. I was a little nervous about my decision, until my first trick-or-treater ran back to his dad and said, “Cool! A slinky!” That was 8 years ago, and it went better than I could have imagined. One year, a group of girls even told my husband that she looked forward to the “rubber ducky house” every year. Somehow, I resisted the opportunity to say I told you so.
There are plenty of good options for stickers, toys, rubber duckys, mini games or even temporary tattoos for children you know well. Oriental Trading Company has a wide selection. Some are more expensive than candy, but it depends on how you look at it. When you average in the bag of candy you bought on sale in September (and ate), the one in mid-October (trust me, that one will disappear as well) and the one you have to run out at the last minute and buy, it evens out in the end.
Of course I have great memories eating excessive quantities of candy on Halloween as a little kid. There’s nothing wrong with that on occasion. I’m a fan of eating treats when I really, really want them and will enjoy them, not eating treats because they’re sitting right in front of me and then *poof* where’d they go? There are also healthier treats, like mini Larabars and mini Kind Bars , all fruit leathers, mini-packs of pistachio nuts, etc.
Tips for Enjoying Halloween with Food Restrictions
Talk to teachers and friends about focusing parties around activities (like pumpkin carving, apple bobbing, costume contest) rather than just trick or treating.
Pre-stock your Halloween bag with foods that are ‘legal’ for your child (and/or you) so that you can safely snack along the way. Some treats that are normally gluten-free or allergen free have different ingredients in the special holiday versions, soalways double check.
Stash safe bags of candy/treats at friend’s houses for your child.
Have a trade in. Your child can trade the “problem” candies and treats for “safe” treats, or games, prizes, special outings, etc. You can either stash the “problem” candy somewhere out of reach, or donate it to the foodbank.