I joined your community because I think I might be married to a disguised narcissist. I was hoping you can help me figure it out. I knew there is something wrong with him and his family but I never considered NPD. When a US military base psychologist brought up the idea I looked up NPD on Wikipedia and I didn’t take it too seriously because he did not match the symptoms described. His symptoms, I thought, were more on the contrary, he always sighed, complained about low self-esteem, busy... Full Bio