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Ticket to Ride

Posted May 29 2013 6:55pm
On Cathedral of Junk throne

On Cathedral of Junk throne

What a trip!

What was going to be a simple trip to witness my youngest son Josh graduating from college turned into an astonishing foodie and walking tour of Austin, TX and a meeting of some fabulous people who will become part of my extended family.

Greeting me at the Austin, TX airport were Josh and his lovely fiancee Jessica. The fact that I, a Stage IV cancer queen, was even able to fly with a stopover in San Diego was quite the accomplishment. The plane to Austin was delayed for two hours, but I entertained myself with my iPod Touch and with getting up periodically to circulate and buy snacks. I’m supposed to eat every two hours because my body no longer tells me, “I’m hungry.” I just have to guess at it. Unfortunately the food selections were vastly limited because the gate area was being remodeled. Still, it was worth the wait to arrive in Austin to see two familiar smiling faces as the sun sank to the horizon.

When we arrived at Jessica’s parents’ house, her Dad was there to greet us, along with her frisky dog Mac. All Mac demanded of me was to throw a ball so he could retrieve it. He lived for those very moments. After a scrumptious homemade dinner (something I would never make for myself, living alone), we played the game “Ticket to Ride.” Although Jessica had both the Europe and US versions of the game, she had me learn using the US one. I lost miserably, but no matter. I did get a ticket to ride. I thought. I’m here and I’m feeling like part of the family already.

The next day we rose bright and early so we could head to IKEA. Many people can’t believe I’ve never been to an IKEA store, but until this time, it was true. There are none close to where I live. The selection and  arrangements of the furniture were overwhelming. One could go crazy in a superstore like that! After walking around for an hour and a half, which passed far too quickly, we gathered in the car to prepare for the remainder of the day.

After a satisfying vegan lunch of homemade fajitas, followed by my eating two peanut-butter-laden dates for calories, we headed up to Waco to arrive the evening before Josh’s graduation from Baylor University. The following morning Jessica and Josh treated me to a brunch at Cafe Cappuccino, which lives up to its name. The graduation itself was inside a stadium, a big relief from the heat and humidity. This Mom couldn’t have been more proud of her son’s accomplishments as he strode across the stage to receive his well earned diploma, summa cum laude.


Proud Mom with Josh and Jessica on his special day

Proud Mom with Josh and Jessica on his special day

Later that evening we celebrated at a local Thai restaurant.  Spring rolls and Thai delicacies abounded. Josh had to drive up to Nashville early the following morning, so he said goodbye to me that night. A bittersweet parting.

The next morning we returned to Austin.  For lunch Jessica and I headed to Kerbey Lane Cafe, a vegan-friendly place with lots of good vibes. Afterward we visited the famed  Cathedral of Junk . How fabulous it was to sit on the throne and enjoy the work of this talented yardist! Exploring various colored rooms was especially intriguing. We then drove back to her parents’ house where I met her Mom, swam, and hung out in their hot tub for two hours while Mac urged me to keep throwing his ruined ball over and over. We enjoyed Chinese takeout and a rented movie before retiring to bed. As I drifted off to sleep, I wondered about whether I would have the energy to see half the sights we hoped to see on the morrow.

I shouldn’t have worried.

The next day my ticket to ride continued as Jessica and I explored shops and savored lunch at FoodHeads Cafe and Catering with a friend of a friend. Then of course we had to visit Amy’s Ice Cream shop, a standout in local Austin culture. Completely full, we headed out to Red Bud Isle , a park where pet owners take their treasured animals off the leash to wander the paths and splash in the water. This spit of land extends into Lake Austin, providing a scenic backdrop to the whole park. Afterward we shared an iced chai at Mozart’s Coffee Roasters on the lake as we read our books on the decking overlooking the marina.

Next stop? The world headquarters of Whole Foods in downtown Austin. We secured our takeout of sushi, grapes, soup and sandwiches and headed up to Mt. Bonnell , Austin’s highest point. An empty picnic table beckoned us at the summit so we could sit and eat while taking in the skyscape that is downtown Austin. Jessica was amazed that I could climb and descend the steps without any trouble and at how much energy I had in reserve. It was truly remarkable–a miracle, in fact.  Afterward, we came back to the house, happy and ready to lounge around.

Jan at Mt. Bennell

Jan at Mt. Bonnell

The next day I flew out to go back for treatment, which is at a facility about a four-hour drive from my home. I couldn’t miss the treatment, but I did miss the hospitality of that magical capitol of Texas. How is it one can feel the empty-nest syndrome even away from home? The therapy completed, I drove myself  to my empty nest in the suburbs, knowing that I will plan a return visit, at least for the wedding.

This was a ticket to ride to remember.  And unlike the Beatles’ lyrics, I DO care. I really do.



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