Brought my dad to the airport yesterday morning - very early. He couldn't wait to get outta here! He is back in GA now.
He was here 1 week. He was unhappy and anxious so it was for his best to go.
I am disappointed. I am feeling slightly abandoned. But I understand. I want him to be relaxed & happy wherever that may be.
I tried like hell to make my home comfortable for him. I finished half the basement with a bathroom. All the makings of a home in his own space. Offered him anything he wanted or needed. But it wasn't enough. I had to let it go. I am not responsible for his happiness. I cannot control his emotions. I had to let go and let him do what he needs to do for himself.
I think it was all just too much. He just had surgery. He sold his van and locksmithing tools. He moved up north where it's colder. And I think the big adjustment was my cancer .
Some people cannot handle cancer, the treatments and all it entails. It's an ugly ugly business.
He was here 1 week. He was unhappy and anxious so it was for his best to go.
I am disappointed. I am feeling slightly abandoned. But I understand. I want him to be relaxed & happy wherever that may be.
I tried like hell to make my home comfortable for him. I finished half the basement with a bathroom. All the makings of a home in his own space. Offered him anything he wanted or needed. But it wasn't enough. I had to let it go. I am not responsible for his happiness. I cannot control his emotions. I had to let go and let him do what he needs to do for himself.
I think it was all just too much. He just had surgery. He sold his van and locksmithing tools. He moved up north where it's colder. And I think the big adjustment was my cancer .
Some people cannot handle cancer, the treatments and all it entails. It's an ugly ugly business.
It's okay.
I understand.
Still love ya dad.
Wish ya nothing but total happiness.
L