Today is my dad's birthday. He would have been 69 years old. He died of pancreatic cancer when he was 48 years old. Too young. My husband is now 49 years old and is in the prime of his life. He is healthy, active, happy and thriving. I can't imagine him not being here.
My dad's death was the first in my life and the time when I realized that people are often taken too soon. I'm not sure what the right number of years to be on earth should be, but I think it should be more than 48.
When I was first diagnosed with cancer, my doctor showed me the 10 year survival rates for someone with my diagnosis. If I survive 10 years, I will be 53. This didn't really make me feel a whole lot better. 53 seems too young also. How about 83 or 93 or 103? How about I get to actually live a good, long, healthy, happy life? I just celebrated my 45th birthday-one which I am extremely grateful for.
Now, 21 years after my dad's death, it seems like most of the deaths that I have had to bear have been for people that were way too young. So for those people, here's wishing you would have had more birthdays to celebrate.
Dad-48 years old Marty-41 years old Diane-46 years old Dean-30 years old Baby Lauren-6 hours Baby Sierra Willow-0 hours