When I was a little girl, being 35 was considered pretty old. When I was in my late teens, Jane Fonda yelled: 40 is beautiful! When I was in my early 20's I couldn't imagine having long hair after I turned 30 because dignified women of a certain age didn't do that. When I was in my 30's reaching the age of 50 seemed very old indeed. And yet now all of that has changed. It hasn't changed