Attention choreography: Revisiting the key role of attention in conflict resolution (and just about everything else you do)

I sometimes say the role of the mediator is attention choreographer or attention conductor. Where people are putting their attention is going to powerfully influence the conflict, and any resolution. Attention is key. To help with attending to attention, I point out to you excerpts from two different books. The first is from the book Rapt: Attention and the Focused...