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Bon

My name is Bon and I am 29. My husband, known here as DH, is 30. Over the past years we have struggled with infertility, baby loss, and disrupted adoption. This blog is my necessary space to allow me to grieve, process my thoughts, and move forward.
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Break by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption Due to agency restrictions on blogging, I will be taking a break for a little while. If you'd like to email me my info is listed on here. Read on »
Still No Travel News by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption Not cool agency....not cool. I waited by the phone/email all day yesterday because you said I would be getting travel dates and info. I never got it. Now it's a holiday week ... Read on »
Travel News by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption  I was told yesterday that today I would be getting news about the escort date home for our baby. I've been waiting by the phone and computer all day, hitting refresh on my ... Read on »
For All My IF Buds by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption You gotta check this out if you're infertile. http://www.theonion.com/articles/pregnant-woman-acting-like-no-one-ever-got-pregnan,1136/ Warning: Do not read if you ... Read on »
Expectations vs. Reality by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption Nothing much going on around here, I hate to say. We have been in limbo waiting in between the two embassy appointments and waiting to hear if they can possibly move our app ... Read on »
Bad News by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption Story is not coming home until August. I am very upset right now. More later. B Read on »
We're back from our spontaneou ... by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption We're back from our spontaneous vacation. We now have passports and we're ready for the next step. Now we just sit tight until the next instructions. Until then I've got ... Read on »
Sigh by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption Sitting here waiting for DH's slow butt to get in gear so we can leave for Chicago. While I'm waiting, I'm messing around with the layout over at Keep Calm. I'm thinking ... Read on »
It's Adoption Crunch Time by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption SO MUCH STUFF is going on adoption wise. We are either 2 or 3 weeks away from the baby coming home!!!!! Hopefully this will be the actual date of coming home and all th ... Read on »
My Wish for You by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption (Still waiting on travel details for the baby. ) I saw on my email today that the local art museum is planing a Wish Tree in their garden in a big ceremony for their new ... Read on »
Birthdays, Running, Adoption, DMB by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption Things are moving right along with the adoption . She is on schedule for coming home in the next few weeks. Probably right after Father's Day. We're going out to eat toni ... Read on »
Update on the BHB* by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption *Big Hairy Baby Got the call today back from the vet regarding the Big Hairy Baby's biopsy results. He said the preliminary results were back but the final results not ye ... Read on »
Adoption Updates by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption Over at Keep Calm Read on »
I Don't Know Anything by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption I don't know anything about my daughter. I don't know how she likes to be held. I don't know how she prefers to sleep or how long she sleeps or if she prefers naps. I d ... Read on »
Happy 7 Years!!! by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption I am a bit late in posting this.....but this past Monday, we celebrated our 7 year anniversary of marriage. 7 years of ups and downs. 7 years married to my very best fr ... Read on »
Busy Craziness by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption Sorry I have been neglecting blogging, there is a lot going on. Let me catch you up.   First, school is now over!!! Today is the last day with kids then tom ... Read on »
Owl Quilt Now on Ebay by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption I am selling the baby quilt and some items I had from our old nursery theme. I'm trying to start over. :) I posted the listing on Ebay here if you're interested http://c ... Read on »
We Are Parents by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption We received the adoption decree today!!! Story is now our child. We are officially her parents for keeps. :) Read on »
Update on the Big Hairy Baby by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption ....the dog that is. The good news is it's probably NOT cancer. This is much MUCH better news that our first vet, Dr. Doom, as well as the local vet school predicted. Acc ... Read on »
Ticket to Ride by Bon Posted in: Blog Posts in Adoption This week we're booking Story's ticket to come home with her escort. !!!!!! I don't know how we'll do it, but we're scratching together the last payment in order to g ... Read on »