Like heaven, Nana’s house had many rooms. Each one bore the mark of her attention to detail and meticulousness. The kitchen had a bulletin board with pictures of the entire family arranged neat as a pin and prominently displayed for all to see--or find themselves. You could bank on the cookie jar being full of oatmeal cookies and a not-so-secret drawer being stocked with Snickers, York peppermint patties and packs of Wrigley’s gum. The showpiece of the kitchen was her 1940’s Frigidaire in mint condition inside and out. It was vintage before vintage was hip.
In the dining room, she had custom plantation mural wallpaper that looked brand new and stylish though it was hung thirty years prior. Her silver service and glasses were polished and ready at a moment’s notice.
In the family room were four built-in knotty pine cubbies, one for each of her children, filled with school photos, wedding portraits and other markers of progress for that particular branch of the family tree.
Like her, the house was always the same: furnished, appointed, and maintained in picture perfect condition. She set the bar on cleanliness that Py women ever since will strive to attain. It was no exaggeration that you could eat off her basement floor, maybe even the garage floor.
But she was not a “Martha” about it--the woman in the Bible remembered for being slightly frazzled, harried, perturbed or even resentful. Quite the opposite, Nana went about her tasks gracefully, as if she were royalty. She was never rushed or busy bodied. She always had time to tickle your arm or take a phone call. Try as we might, we will never meet her standard, nor her calm.
There was one room in her house that retained a certain mystery. The door was often closed, especially if you got up early enough in the morning. With dark brown carpet and green upholstery, it was not exactly off limits but we all knew to knock.
There was a safe in the closet of this room that I don’t think I ever entered. We knew it was there though, for on Christmas morning she’d unlock it to retrieve the minted coin sets for all the grandsons. The den was where she kept the valuables.
The den was her sanctuary. The Lord’s Prayer was framed on the wall; a needlepoint kneeler was poised before an open Bible on a stand and a wood carving of praying hands. Nana prayed there every morning and told us of having done so with Papa. I believed her the many times she told me, ”I pray for you everyday.”
Her faith was real, active, consistent and pure, even if private. She summed up her statement of faith in these words, “God said it. I believe it. That settles it.”
She had no need to beg to differ or debate. She believed the Bible as it was written and applied it daily and consistently with pressure as if polishing that silver and be ready at a moment’s notice. The most valuable legacy she leaves us is her unwavering faith and those prayers for us.
As we’d leave Nana’s house after a holiday, she’d send us off at the back door with a lunch for the road, Snickers bars, and a jar of pickles. As we’d back out the narrow, hedged driveway she’d scamper to the front window, poke her little head out the dining room drapes to throw a kiss and stand there waving until our car rounded Hancock Street.
As she left us last Friday, my mom and Betsy, one of her favorite nurses, were on either side of her bed singing old familiar Christmas carols to her. Music was the conduit ushering her into the heavenly realm. They sang all 3 verses of Silent Night as we will do at the end of this service. I believe Jesus welcomed her to a place he’d prepared with more care then even Nana could imagine. (And would you believe that very same song, Silent Night, came on the radio this morning as we watched them carry her out of Groff Funeral home?) God is so tender with us.
For me, the meaning of Christmas was enhanced this year by thinking of Nana’s new reality. Finally, she could see what she’d believedfor so many years.
This Jesus, whose birthday we just celebrated, was Lord at his birth and Christ her Savior. He made a way for her to be home. As they sang those lyrics, I believe she was literally seeing "glories stream from heaven afar.” The Son of God, love’s pure light, surely greeted her with “radiant beams from His holy face.”
2 Corinthians 5:1 says, “We know that if the life we live here on earth is ever taken down like a tent, we still have a building from God. It is an eternal house in heaven that isn't made by human hands.”
“God said it. Nana believed it. That settles it.” She was truly home for Christmas.
I can picture her at the back door of heaven waiting for each one of us to arrive so the fun can really begin! As she would say, “There is always a light on in the window” and it’d be “wunnerful" if you would be there too.
Oh how she loved Pavarotti!