How Your Voice and Words Can Affect a Loved One During the Death Process
Posted May 14 2009 4:31pm
I' ve learned many valuable lessons as I' ve attended the deaths of loved ones. It' s hard to place a value on any of them. However, one that I' ll keep close to my heart is the value of the spoken word, even as a person in a coma nears death. As my mother' s body was shutting down, her limbs looked as though they were rotting, but her heart kept beating. My sister, Beth, and I were at Mom' s side, expecting that at any moment her heart would follow the rest of her organs, and finally she would give up. Mom could then be released from her frail body and do what she had wanted to do for months. She would join Dad, her sisters and her parents in whatever form our spirits take after the death of a worn out body.