It's enough to make a saint swear. Where were they when you had to
figure out someone to stay with your sick child so you could take Dad to
the emergency room? Where were they when Mom blithely signed up and
paid a full year in advance (because it was cheaper than monthly) for a
gym/spa combination that neither she nor Dad could possibly use? Where
were they when your husband needed surgery and help recovering, but Dad
still needed weekly trips to the clinic to have his blood tested because
of his medications?