Caregivers Coping with Criticism from the from the Care Receiver
Posted Sep 29 2012 12:00am
Each care situation was different. I started with an aged neighbor, then moved on to a childless aunt and uncle, my in-laws and eventually my parents. All of them appreciated me. However they each had moments when, because of their own misery, they’d lash out at me in some way.
When I returned to full-time outside employment, I was still caring for three elders, though they were in a nursing home . I’d spoiled my elders by being with them every day no matter how much outside help they had. With full-time employment mixed in, I still visited almost every day and attended to every request. However, from my elders' perspective, my nearly exclusive attention from my pre-employment years was missed and noted.