Thursday's Post - Created Late Wednesday Night We think that our own worst critic is the alcoholic. Or we think it is the alcoholic's relative(s). We may think it is someone at work. Or someone else.
In all of the above people, the worst critic is none of these listed above.
Our own worst critic is . . . drum roll please!!!
Our own worst critic is, you guessed it, ourselves. It is that little voice we have going off inside our heads trying to remind us that we are "less-than" - and winds up beating down any self-esteem and confidence we have. It goes like this;
"How could you have done such a stupid thing?"
This voice is our voice, but it can be someone elses words. No matter, because it wears us down. And it can replay it over and over. It is this voice and the mental mental images that also get played out in our mind, that make us less-than what we are capable of being and less-than what we want and deserve.
Let me ask you this;
If you had a friend who talked to you the way you talk to yourself, would that person continue to be your friend?
Thursday's Post - Created Late Wednesday Night
We think that our own worst critic is the alcoholic. Or we think it is the alcoholic's relative(s). We may think it is someone at work. Or someone else.
In all of the above people, the worst critic is none of these listed above.
Our own worst critic is . . . drum roll please!!!
Our own worst critic is, you guessed it, ourselves. It is that little voice we have going off inside our heads trying to remind us that we are "less-than" - and winds up beating down any self-esteem and confidence we have. It goes like this;
"How could you have done such a stupid thing?"
This voice is our voice, but it can be someone elses words. No matter, because it wears us down. And it can replay it over and over. It is this voice and the mental mental images that also get played out in our mind, that make us less-than what we are capable of being and less-than what we want and deserve.
Let me ask you this;
If you had a friend who talked to you the way you talk to yourself, would that person continue to be your friend?