Okay, some of you are saying 'It's Sunday', I know, I know, here goes and please forgive the grammar . . .
'I SHOULD . . . all over my self
One of my character defects that underpins my need to be in judgement mode, I practice on myself. Thinking about what I should be doing puts me right into analysis paralysis. It's also a way of practicing unacceptable behavior. I seldom suggest that someone else 'should' do something but I am constantly 'shoulding' on myself, as the founder of Gestalt School of Psychology, Fritz Perls observed.
What's good about today is that I can try to be a better friend to myself. Makes sense?