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Contemporary Chinese 12 alone

Posted Apr 17 2012 8:06am

All kinds of digital equipment every day with us, the Internet full of colorful image, a man said he left a computer to sleep, often is to lie on the bed to mobile phones. When @ go in micro rice blog ponder words, who will not think she has made a decision to go to dead. When a stranger on the dinner party to pass XiaoYingYing business card, who also won't think of depression has become the world's fourth largest disease. Technology update every day, all kinds of digital equipment every day with us, that was supposed to fill the empty, boring, stunned time, even encroached on originally should be used to work, talking, and sleep time. There are the most sexy online virtual girlfriend, the bo can draw tens of thousands of concern, video website did not put the TV advertising, online mall close...... 24 hours The Internet full of coloured audio-visual, let a person do not see the unpleasant, a man said he left a computer to sleep, often is to lie on the bed to mobile phones. Just as the United States MIT professor Shirley · figure Kerr in the lonely together "wrote, we seem to be a stranger in a strange world. Back to, just to give you look wonderful and beautiful. Particularly for women, and a display and compare is they pay most attention to, including possible enviable details, including experiences and insights. Spend watching others on happiness in the more time you the more depressed. "People have to see friends, spouse, colleagues of the psychological price information to pay, they shouldn't focused on these, the harmful emotional health." Shirley · figure Kerr said. The third kind of lonely: the old in "no 87 years of Margaret thatcher now their sick old, son a month to get over to visit a, daughter often busy months have not come. The conservative party members tucked in a new book, sent the plug, sent the diary of revealed, Margaret thatcher also regret, if the time could go back, she will be for the family to give up on politics. In China, the concept of and is declining, most often get along the way is: children for a living to rush about, the old man is to take care of their grandchildren play of surplus value. After retirement, most of the old man lost social identity, also shrank by a social life. This spring, a 68-year-old granny dalian alone at home, lonely to press the toilet to play, two months washed away 98 tons of water. The fourth alone: single children in the past, the Chinese people live with emotional connection relationship, to face the grandparents, brothers and sisters, wife, children, big family many lively. And the one-child generation has no brothers and sisters, relatives less and less. Every child in the "421" at the top of the pyramid of family structure, the whole family attentive caress. Children between in the first minute total frolicking stadium was to adults, who also forbid their children suffer, only reduce physical contact. Parents hope that the child has to play companion, but the playmate also if they recognized, in hefei, even have a website organization "baby blind date", the parents for the children choose playmate. In the past Chinese cultured worldly wisdom, many are being simple CongLve today, but the ego is the greater the put. Facing huge self, hard to avoid has profound loneliness. The fifth kind of lonely: leave home in April 2012, he expanded in boao Asia BBS said: "if we have any staff unreasonable demands, will not be as now 'a to three'......" The fact is, for a living, first joined the city of migrant workers can only blood sweat. The assembly line workers, which do not high strength low-income work. The past in the country savage growth, a into the gate, can not free, even private life is limited, even the basic emotions can satisfy demand. Men and women out of proportion in dongguan, some inside the plant "polygamy" is commonplace, pregnant women after being abandoned. Poor from home, many of them are only children. The sixth alone: because love in 2011, the Taiwan unmarried women for 2.17 million, 2.7 million for men, the average age for delay, a lot of people can't find emotional home, and even chiling Lin also dia dia to say: "have no boy after he ling, only time chasing after he ling." 36 months love that is the risk of ebb tide always there, tough wear with passion, women blame men don't keep the oath, strange women don't like man had, there is often no more than partner partner lonely. The French serial shooting suspect muhammad merasgar Hector's lawyer also get emotional reasons when argument: "in marriage before shooting lily-rose Hector stimulated, he commit crime of certain feel like a horse" lone Wolf "." The seventh kind of lonely: I don't believe that the intelligence and wisdom of the Chinese have how much used to "mutual against"? You have edible oils, I false honey, you sell poison milk, I sell beef is actually dyeing pork. In order to profit colluding without hesitation, sticky and say industry unspoken rules. Food safety, record of formal schooling is false, the charity to do more show, reputation is not real... One of the process to become gradually grew up all skeptical process. Eight kinds of lonely: tall cement forests captured the city, home up on half empty, become a apartment. Lost communication between people of contacts, everyone pay attention to lock the guard against theft. City full of geometrical feeling, the design is to create wonders, and more and more depressing city of Brasilia, extremely large size, no nerve endings, "in which individuals will feel lost, like a man on the moon so lonely." (Marshall · berman language) today in the city managers only hope smoothing traffic flow, bright lights at night, people keep a safe distance from each other. Nine kinds of lonely: celebrity sing "lonely patients" eason chan really feel very lonely. "Two or three years ago I also dare to take the subway, but now can't, as if to see people will feel afraid, do not know how to deal with it." Attention has two state of mind, a powder is you, one kind is scold you. both "How do you feel, how does it feel? / when you self-contained, homeless. / like an outsider, and like a rolling stone." Bob dylan in the past, "like a rolling stone" sing, much like eyes staring the display today. But Minnesota noise in, but we feel more and more lonely: every few minutes will look at a mobile phone, and constantly refresh micro bo see friends in stem what, the mail was not immediately returned depressed upset...... The wave in the wind around our emotions code and the table, everyone down cellphone or tablet computer, the topic is also often around social networking sites are audible and what is going on. Why do we feel more and more lonely? Because we rely on science and technology and is not each other, envy others and sell yourself short, because the elderly no depends only children grew up, lonely, because someone away, with no emotion, because we lack of social trust, to the city of lack of recognition, because someone trouble tired, creating isolated, because children have autism, because someone choose possess. Although we have today with all the benefits of face difficulties is unprecedented, human emotional needs but never changed, the twelve kinds of lonely confirmed today Chinese anxiety, they are on the trot update for a better way of life, but in a strange way into blatant alone. Hera barr's novel "the too blatant lonely" is a lonely discard an article to procure station dozen contractor monologue, he was alone in the basement of the dirty work of up to 35 years, with those who abandoned ZiZhi will his armed as the abundance of the heart. This elaborate brewing 20 years story, is actually Hera baal blatant face alone gives solutions--" in the society of garbage and not fall into chaos and above panic ". Back to, just to give you look wonderful and beautiful. Particularly for women, and a display and compare is they pay most attention to, including possible enviable details, including experiences and insights. Spend watching others on happiness in the more time you the more depressed. "People have to see friends, spouse, colleagues of the psychological price information to pay, they shouldn't focused on these, the harmful emotional health." Shirley · figure Kerr said. The third kind of lonely: the old in "no 87 years of Margaret thatcher now their sick old, son a month to get over to visit a, daughter often busy months have not come. The conservative party members tucked in a new book, sent the plug, sent the diary of revealed, Margaret thatcher also regret, if the time could go back, she will be for the family to give up on politics. In China, the concept of and is declining, most often get along the way is: children for a living to rush about, the old man is to take care of their grandchildren play of surplus value. After retirement, most of the old man lost social identity, also shrank by a social life. This spring, a 68-year-old granny dalian alone at home, lonely to press the toilet to play, two months washed away 98 tons of water. The fourth alone: single children in the past, the Chinese people live with emotional connection relationship, to face the grandparents, brothers and sisters, wife, children, big family many lively. And the one-child generation has no brothers and sisters, relatives less and less. Every child in the "421" at the top of the pyramid of family structure, the whole family attentive caress. Children between in the first minute total frolicking stadium was to adults, who also forbid their children suffer, only reduce physical contact. Parents hope that the child has to play companion, but the playmate also if they recognized, in hefei, even have a website organization "baby blind date", the parents for the children choose playmate. In the past Chinese cultured worldly wisdom, many are being simple CongLve today, but the ego is the greater the put. Facing huge self, hard to avoid has profound loneliness. The fifth kind of lonely: leave home in April 2012, he expanded in boao Asia BBS said: "if we have any staff unreasonable demands, will not be as now 'a to three'......" The fact is, for a living, first joined the city of migrant workers can only blood sweat. The assembly line workers, which do not high strength low-income work. The past in the country savage growth, a into the gate, can not free, even private life is limited, even the basic emotions can satisfy demand. Men and women out of proportion in dongguan, some inside the plant "polygamy" is commonplace, pregnant women after being abandoned. Poor from home, many of them are only children. The sixth alone: because love in 2011, the Taiwan unmarried women for 2.17 million, 2.7 million for men, the average age for delay, a lot of people can't find emotional home, and even chiling Lin also dia dia to say: "have no boy after he ling, only time chasing after he ling." 36 months love that is the risk of ebb tide always there, tough wear with passion, women blame men don't keep the oath, strange women don't like man had, there is often no more than partner partner lonely. The French serial shooting suspect muhammad merasgar Hector's lawyer also get emotional reasons when argument: "in marriage before shooting lily-rose Hector stimulated, he commit crime of certain feel like a horse" lone Wolf "." The seventh kind of lonely: I don't believe that the intelligence and wisdom of the Chinese have how much used to "mutual against"? You have edible oils, I false honey, you sell poison milk, I sell beef is actually dyeing pork. In order to profit colluding without hesitation, sticky and say industry unspoken rules. Food safety, record of formal schooling is false, the charity to do more show, reputation is not real... One of the process to become gradually grew up all skeptical process. Eight kinds of lonely: tall cement forests captured the city, home up on half empty, become a apartment. Lost communication between people of contacts, everyone pay attention to lock the guard against theft. City full of geometrical feeling, the design is to create wonders, and more and more depressing city of Brasilia, extremely large size, no nerve endings, "in which individuals will feel lost, like a man on the moon so lonely." (Marshall · berman language) today in the city managers only hope smoothing traffic flow, bright lights at night, people keep a safe distance from each other. Nine kinds of lonely: celebrity sing "lonely patients" eason chan really feel very lonely. "Two or three years ago I also dare to take the subway, but now can't, as if to see people will feel afraid, do not know how to deal with it." Attention has two state of mind, a powder is you, one kind is scold you. both "Because I was fortunate to man alone, I never lonely, I just alone just, living alone in the populous thought, because I kind of madness, is infinite and eternal madness of molecular, and the infinite and eternal might like a person like me." The first kind of loneliness: reliance on technology rather than to each other "If you want, please contact me 013 701 059 553." Streets in Shenzhen in December 2000, the artist He set up a neon signs to attract hundreds of strangers a phone call. In October 2011 lovelorn American Jeff · 罗格斯戴尔,, also do a similar thing, he will be the phone number posted all over New York, and actually received 6.5 Wantong calls. Calls varied, sell, look for the one-night stand, talking about ideas, there are lonely smell the same smell from. Today, the virtual identity more than the true identity of the symbol and identification. In real life I do not know you, but reported that the Internet name, found that I had been concerned about you. The first step in interpersonal communication is not my add your microblogging is that you add my QQ, online ordering, online games, basic communication by shaking micro letter, even intimate contact can be done via video, as long as their own feelings are true, no one care with their own connection is not a dog. To come, just to give you wonderful and beautiful. Especially women, display and compare their most valued, including the details may be enviable, but also experience and insight. Spent watching more time on the happiness of others, the more you depressed. View have a friend, spouse, colleagues pay a psychological price, they should not pay attention to these, this harmful emotional health. "Shirley Tucker said. Third solitude: Old Men 87-year-old Margaret Thatcher is now elderly and sick, his son more than a month to visit her daughter often busy few months to come. Margaret Thatcher regretted it, if time could go back, she will give up politics for family members of the British Conservative Party, Spicer revealed in the book, "Spicer Diary. In China, the concept of raising children in old age is the gradual failure, most often to get along: children making a living, the elderly take care of the grandchildren play a residual value. After retirement, most elderly people have lost social identity, and also reduce the social. Spring Festival this year, a 68-year-old Dalian old woman at home alone, lonely to press the toilet to play two months, swept away 98 tons of water. Fourth alone: ​​the only child in the past, Chinese people living in the relationship of emotional contact, to face the parents and elders, brothers, sisters, wives, children, extended family and many lively. The one-child generation no brothers or sisters, relatives and less and less. Every child at the top of the pyramid of the "421" family structure, and attentive care of the whole family. Pushing and shoving between the children frolic total in the first minute by adults to stop, who are not allowed their own children suffer, the only way to reduce the physical contact. Parents want the children have playmates, but playmates have to be recognized in Hefei, and even have a website organization "baby blind" selection of playmates for their children by their parents. Chinese people pay attention to the ways of the world in the past, today many are simple omitted, except the self is more put the greater. The face of gigantic self will inevitably have a profound sense of loneliness. Fifth kinds of loneliness: to leave home in April 2012, Gou on the Boao Forum for Asia, said: "If our employees have any unreasonable demands would not be one to three as they are now '' ..." The fact is, for their livelihood, entering the city's migrant workers can only sweat and blood. Workers on the assembly line, which do not high-strength low-paying jobs. Barbaric growth in the countryside, into the factory gate, again not free, and even private life is limited, even the basic emotional needs are unable to meet. Gender imbalance in Dongguan, some factory "polygamy" is common to pregnant workers more than to be abandoned. Poor to leave home, many of them children. Sixth alone: ​​in 2011 because of the love, the unmarried women in Taiwan was 2.17 million, 2.7 million men and the average age of marriage continued to push a lot of people can not find the emotional end, even Lin Chi-ling Dia Dia said: "No boys chase Zhiling , only time chasing Zhiling. "36 months of love, low tide, the danger always exists, wear a passion difficult to get along, the women blame men do not keep the oath, the men blame the women do not like first, the partner is often more lonely than no partner. French serial shooting suspect Mohammed the Meila He's lawyers to take the emotional reason when the argument: "Meila He divorce before the attack, irritation, he certainly feel like 'a lone wolf' crime." seventh solitude: I do not believe the wisdom of the Chinese people how much is used to harm each other? Waste oil, I have a fake honey, you sold the tainted milk I sell beef staining pork. In order to fame and fortune did not hesitate in cahoots, became public would say is the industry's unspoken rules. Food insecurity, education is a fake charity more than a show, fame does not match the real ... a person who grew up to become a skeptical attitude towards the process of gradually all. Eighth alone: ​​high-rise concrete jungle occupied the city, home l on the air, into a building. Lost the exchange of contacts between people, everyone carefully to lock the security door. The city is full of geometric sense, those designed in order to create wonders from more and more of Brasilia dull city, immense volume, there is no nerve endings, the individuals in which to feel lost, like a man in the moon so lonely. "(Marshall Berman language) Today's city managers only hope that the traffic flow smooth, brightly lit at night, people keep a safe distance. Ninth kinds of loneliness: celebrity Eason Chan singing "lonely patients feel really lonely. "A couple of years ago I would dare to take the subway, but did not dare, as if to see that people will feel fear, do not know how to deal with." Concerned about the attitudes, is a powder you a call you. Both Reliance on the network, but also make us a precise target consumers. Looked at the Amazon recommended the purchase record, "you might be interested in, really will have an understanding of moved. 325 female college student persistence @ Kevin Tsai seeking response, network navy yelled the Shu overnight delete the light microblogging. Reputation bigger need to have a strong psychological endurance, not take the soft, otherwise it will be down by long-term accumulation of negative energy. Fan Bingbing boasted, her success is not in vain, "I can stand much slander withstand the number of praise. Species 10 alone: ​​the creation of Rilke writing always isolated; Richter complain about people people like his art, because this is like probably with the fame and fortune chasing; Marquez said: "One hundred million people decided to read one depends on one person sitting alone shabby homes, with 28 letters, two finger knocked out of the book, think of all feel crazy. "The creative process can not be shared with the world, only survived alone according to the body transparent day, be possible to be immortal. 2012 Pritzker Architecture Prize, the architect Wang Shu mixed feelings: "I am so many years in the exploration process, feel a bit lonely, but if in good faith to think about, work carefully to adhere to the ideal for a long enough time. alone: ​​then finally there will be some results 10 of the 67 million children with autism autism and depression over the world, the past 20 years, cases of autism in developed countries showing the explosive rise. In China in 2011, only Guangzhou resident population of about 70,000 children with autism, but also increased year by year. Scott Selleck, Professor of the University of Pennsylvania, said: "The genetic and environmental factors each bear half the blame." Autism is not because the people around cold, but a disease. Similarly, depression is not just a bad mood so simple depression torture six years, singer Yang Kun said "On the one hand, in particular, eager to communicate with people, on the other hand has been particularly eager to a person. Twelfth kinds of loneliness: Self-absorption "I experienced real loneliness, this feeling overwhelmed everything." March 27, 2012, sitting single bathyscaphs sneak into the 11000 m deep Mariana Trench, the U.S. director Cameron said. Today, fewer and fewer people to stand alone, but readily pick up that easy to get fun. The lack of affordability of the face of externally imposed exclusion, in order not alone, preferring not free, including to accept that they do not enjoy the lifestyle, friends and social attitudes. The gentleman must be careful its independence also. Lonely efforts for questioning the meaning of life is still worth it to face the truth of life, longer lonely will receive compensation. "I feel lonely very happy, such as 12:00, you open a book, smell the fragrance of the ink feel others do not have to." Cui said. The second alone: ​​no one better than me The Instagram such camera tools in order to bland living beautify the legend, the sun came out for the crowd of people envy. Shirley Tucker to show off known as the "presentation anxiety. Filled with a large number of such "anxiety" network you watch everyone regarded dark side go behind, just to give you look wonderful and beautiful. Especially women, display and compare their most valued, including the details may be enviable, but also experience and insight. Spent watching more time on the happiness of others, the more you depressed. 325 female college student persistence @ Kevin Tsai seeking response, network navy yelled the Shu overnight delete the light microblogging. Reputation bigger need to have a strong psychological endurance, not take the soft, otherwise it will be down by long-term accumulation of negative energy. Fan Bingbing boasted, her success is not in vain, "I can stand much slander withstand the number of praise. Species 10 alone: ​​the creation of Rilke writing always isolated; Richter complain about people people like his art, because this is like probably with the fame and fortune chasing; Marquez said: "One hundred million people decided to read one depends on one person sitting alone shabby homes, with 28 letters, two finger knocked out of the book, think of all feel crazy. "The creative process can not be shared with the world, only survived alone according to the body transparent day, be possible to be immortal. 2012 Pritzker Architecture Prize, the architect Wang Shu mixed feelings: "I am so many years in the exploration process, feel a bit lonely, but if in good faith to think about, work carefully to adhere to the ideal for a long enough time. alone: ​​then finally there will be some results 10 of the 67 million children with autism autism and depression over the world, the past 20 years, cases of autism in developed countries showing the explosive rise. In China in 2011, only Guangzhou resident population of about 70,000 children with autism, but also increased year by year. Scott Selleck, Professor of the University of Pennsylvania, said: "The genetic and environmental factors each bear half the blame." Autism is not because the people around cold, but a disease. Similarly, depression is not just a bad mood so simple depression torture six years, singer Yang Kun said "On the one hand, in particular, eager to communicate with people, on the other hand has been particularly eager to a person. Twelfth kinds of loneliness: Self-absorption "I experienced real loneliness, this feeling overwhelmed everything." March 27, 2012, sitting single bathyscaphs sneak into the 11000 m deep Mariana Trench, the U.S. director Cameron said. Today, fewer and fewer people to stand alone, but readily pick up that easy to get fun. The lack of affordability of the face of externally imposed exclusion, in order not alone, preferring not free, including to accept that they do not enjoy the lifestyle, friends and social attitudes. The gentleman must be careful its independence also. Lonely efforts for questioning the meaning of life is still worth it to face the truth of life, the longer the lonely will receive compensation. "I feel lonely very happy, such as 12:00, you open a book, smell the fragrance of the ink feel others do not have to." Cui said. View have a friend, spouse, colleagues pay a psychological price, they should not pay attention to these, this harmful emotional health. "Shirley Tucker said. The third alone: ​​Old Men 87-year-old Margaret Thatcher, now elderly and sick, son more than a month to come to visit once a daughter is often busy few months to come. Margaret Thatcher regretted it, if time could go back, she will give up politics for family members of the British Conservative Party, Spicer revealed in the book, "Spicer Diary. In China, the concept of raising children in old age is the gradual failure, most often to get along: children making a living, the elderly take care of the grandchildren play a residual value. After retirement, most elderly people have lost social identity, and also reduce the social. Spring Festival this year, a 68-year-old Dalian old woman at home alone, lonely to press the toilet to play two months, swept away 98 tons of water. Fourth alone: ​​only child In the past, Chinese people living in the relationship of emotional contact to the face of the parents and elders, brothers, sisters, wives, children, extended family and many lively. The one-child generation no brothers or sisters, relatives and less and less. Every child at the top of the pyramid of the "421" family structure, and attentive care of the whole family. Pushing and shoving between the children frolic total in the first minute by adults to stop, who are not allowed their own children suffer, the only way to reduce the physical contact. Parents want the children have playmates, but playmates have to be recognized in Hefei, and even have a website organization "baby blind" selection of playmates for their children by their parents. Chinese people pay attention to the ways of the world in the past, today many are simple omitted, except the self is more put the greater. The face of gigantic self will inevitably have a profound sense of loneliness.

Fifth kind of solitude: to leave home

April 2012, Terry Gou, the Boao Forum for Asia, said: "If our employees have any unreasonable demands would not be one to three as they are now '' ..." The fact is, livelihoods, entering the city.migrant workers can only sweat and blood.Workers on the assembly line, which do not high-strength low-paying jobs.

Barbaric growth in the countryside, into the factory gate, again not free, and even private life is limited, even the basic emotional needs are unable to meet.

Gender imbalance in Dongguan, some factory "polygamy" is common to pregnant workers more than to be abandoned.Poor to leave home, many of them children.

 

Sixth lonely: because love

2011, unmarried women was 2.17 million men and 2.7 million, the average age of marriage continued to push a lot of people can not find the emotional end, even ling said Diadia the: "No boys chase Zhiling, only time chasing Zhiling."

36 months of love that the tide is dangerous always wear a passion difficult to get along, and women blame men do not keep the oath, the men blame the women do not like the original, the partner often more lonely than no partner.

French serial shooting suspect Mohammed the Meila He's lawyers to take the emotional reason when the argument: "Meila He divorce before the attack, irritation, he certainly feel like 'a lone wolf' crime."

 

The seventh solitude: I do not believe

Variety of digital devices every day to accompany us on the Internet is full of colorful audio-visual, a man said he left the computer to sleep, often lying in bed to read the phone.Wen Sun Linlin @ go rice on the microblogging interesting words, who would not think she had determined to die.Dinner on the stranger smiling delivery to business cards, who would not think of depression has become the world's fourth largest disease.Science and technology are updated daily, a variety of digital devices every day to accompany us to fill the originally used to emptiness, boredom, daze time, and even occupation of the original should be used to work, talk, sleep time.Sexy virtual girlfriend online games, microblogging can lead to tens of thousands of people are concerned, the drama of the video sites do not insert ads, online store 24 hours' ... on the Internet is full of colorful audio-visual, people do not see unhappy.a man says he left the computer to sleep, often lying in bed to read the phone.As the Massachusetts Institute of Technology professor Shirley Tucker wrote in "together alone", we seem to be a stranger in a strange world."How you feel How does it feel? / When you are self-contained, homeless / like an outsider, it would seem a Rolling Stone." Bob Dylan used to sing "Like a Rolling Stone" in the multi-like today, his eyes glued to the screen.Voices buzz, however, we got the feeling more alone: ​​every few minutes to see a cell phone, and constantly refresh the microblogging see a friend in the doing, the message was not immediately reply to feel depressed and disturbed ... who Gone with the WindThe code in the wind about our emotions on the table, everyone bow to play with the phone or tablet PC, the topic often focus on the social networking site that is audible and what is happening commence.Why do we feel more and more lonely?Because we rely on technology rather than each other, envy of others and to belittle ourselves, and nothing to the elderly who rely only child growing up, because some people from their homes, without emotion, because of a lack of trust in our society, the lack of recognition of the city, because some peoplereputation tired, for the creation of isolation, because a child suffering from autism, because people choose spared.Despite the benefits with the predicament we face today are unprecedented, and the emotional needs of human beings has never changed, these 12 kinds of lonely confirmed the anxiety of the Chinese people today, they are trot all the way to the pursuit of newer and better way of life, but in strange the way into the hustle and bustle of loneliness.Hera Barr's novel "too noisy lonely" is a lonely monologue of scrap yards packaged workers, he worked alone in a dirty basement for 35 years, most hearty word paper discarded armed into the mindpeople.This carefully brewing a 20-year-old story, in fact, the Hera Baltic to face the hustle and bustle of the lonely given solution - rather than on top of the garbage of society fall into chaos and panic. ""Because I was fortunate to man alone, I was never alone, I'm just alone, living alone in a dense thinking, because I was a bit arrogant, is infinite and eternal arrogance molecules, while the infinite and eternal, perhaps like methis section alone: ​​rely on technology instead of another "think you, please contact me 013 701 059 553".Streets in Shenzhen in December 2000, the artist He set up a neon signs to attract hundreds of strangers a phone call.In October 2011 lovelorn American Jeff · 罗格斯戴尔,, also do a similar thing, he will be the phone number posted all over New York, and actually received 6.5 Wantong calls.Calls varied, sell, look for the one-night stand, talking about ideas, there are lonely smell the same smell from.Today, the virtual identity more than the true identity of the symbol and identification.In real life I do not know you, but reported that the Internet name, found that I had been concerned about you.The first step in interpersonal communication is not my add your microblogging is that you add my QQ, online ordering, online games, basic communication by shaking micro letter, even intimate contact can be done via video, as long as their own feelings are true, no onecare with their own connection is not a dog.Reliance on the network, but also make us a precise target consumers.Looked at the Amazon recommended the purchase record, "you might be interested in, really will have an understanding of moved.The second alone: ​​no one better than me Instagram this type of camera tool to beautify the prosaic life legend, the sun came out for the onlookers envy.Shirley Tucker to show off known as the "presentation anxiety.Filled with a large number of such "anxiety" in the network, you watch everyone regard the dark side of the transfer
The wisdom of the Chinese people to "mutual harm."?Waste oil, I have a fake honey, you sold the tainted milk I sell beef staining pork.In order to fame and fortune did not hesitate in cahoots, became public would say is the industry's unspoken rules.

Food insecurity, education is a fake charity more than a show, fame does not match the real ... a person who grew up to become a skeptical attitude towards the process of gradually all.

 

Eighth kinds of loneliness: the concrete jungle

The high-rise occupied the city, home rose to the air, into a building.Lost the exchange of contacts between people, everyone carefully to lock the security door.

The city is full of geometric sense, those designed in order to create wonders from more and more of Brasilia dull city, immense volume, there is no nerve endings, the individuals in which to feel lost, like a man in the moonon that alone. "(Marshall Berman, language)

Today's city managers only want to smooth traffic flow, was ablaze with lights at night, people with each other to maintain a safe distance.

 

To come, just to give you wonderful and beautiful.Especially women, display and compare their most valued, including the details may be enviable, but also experience and insight.Spent watching more time on the happiness of others, the more you depressed.View have a friend, spouse, colleagues pay a psychological price, they should not pay attention to these, this harmful emotional health. "Shirley Tucker said.Third solitude: Old Men 87-year-old Margaret Thatcher is now elderly and sick, his son more than a month to visit her daughter often busy few months to come.Margaret Thatcher regretted it, if time could go back, she will give up politics for family members of the British Conservative Party, Spicer revealed in the book, "Spicer Diary.In China, the concept of raising children in old age is the gradual failure, most often to get along: children making a living, the elderly take care of the grandchildren play a residual value.After retirement, most elderly people have lost social identity, and also reduce the social.Spring Festival this year, a 68-year-old Dalian old woman at home alone, lonely to press the toilet to play two months, swept away 98 tons of water.Fourth alone: ​​the only child in the past, Chinese people living in the relationship of emotional contact, to face the parents and elders, brothers, sisters, wives, children, extended family and many lively.The one-child generation no brothers or sisters, relatives and less and less.Every child at the top of the pyramid of the "421" family structure, and attentive care of the whole family.Pushing and shoving between the children frolic total in the first minute by adults to stop, who are not allowed their own children suffer, the only way to reduce the physical contact.Parents want the children have playmates, but playmates have to be recognized in Hefei, and even have a website organization "baby blind" selection of playmates for their children by their parents.Chinese people pay attention to the ways of the world in the past, today many are simple omitted, except the self is more put the greater.The face of gigantic self will inevitably have a profound sense of loneliness.Fifth kinds of loneliness: to leave home in April 2012, Gou on the Boao Forum for Asia, said: "If our employees have any unreasonable demands would not be one to three as they are now '' ..." The fact is,for their livelihood, entering the city's migrant workers can only sweat and blood.Workers on the assembly line, which do not high-strength low-paying jobs.Barbaric growth in the countryside, into the factory gate, again not free, and even private life is limited, even the basic emotional needs are unable to meet.Gender imbalance in Dongguan, some factory "polygamy" is common to pregnant workers more than to be abandoned.Poor to leave home, many of them children.Sixth alone: ​​in 2011 because of the love, the unmarried women in Taiwan was 2.17 million, 2.7 million men and the average age of marriage continued to push a lot of people can not find the emotional end, even Lin Chi-ling Dia Dia said: "No boys chase Zhiling, only time chasing Zhiling. "36 months of love, low tide, the danger always exists, wear a passion difficult to get along, the women blame men do not keep the oath, the men blame the women do not like first, the partner is often more lonely than no partner.French serial shooting suspect Mohammed the Meila He's lawyers to take the emotional reason when the argument: "Meila He divorce before the attack, irritation, he certainly feel like 'a lone wolf' crime."seventh solitude: I do not believe the wisdom of the Chinese people how much is used to harm each other?Waste oil, I have a fake honey, you sold the tainted milk I sell beef staining pork.In order to fame and fortune did not hesitate in cahoots, became public would say is the industry's unspoken rules.Food insecurity, education is a fake charity more than a show, fame does not match the real ... a person who grew up to become a skeptical attitude towards the process of gradually all.Eighth alone: ​​high-rise concrete jungle occupied the city, home l on the air, into a building.Lost the exchange of contacts between people, everyone carefully to lock the security door.The city is full of geometric sense, those designed in order to create wonders from more and more of Brasilia dull city, immense volume, there is no nerve endings, the individuals in which to feel lost, like a man in the moonso lonely. "(Marshall Berman language) Today's city managers only hope that the traffic flow smooth, brightly lit at night, people keep a safe distance.Ninth kinds of loneliness: celebrity Eason Chan singing "lonely patients feel really lonely."A couple of years ago I would dare to take the subway, but did not dare, as if to see that people will feel fear, do not know how to deal with." Concerned about the attitudes, is a powder you a call you.Both
Ninth kinds of loneliness: to become a celebrity

Eason Chan singing "lonely patients really feel very lonely."Two or three years ago, I dare to take the subway, but did not dare, as if to see that people will feel fear, do not know how to deal with."

Concern about the state of mind, a powder you a call you.Both female students and dedication @ Kevin Tsai 325-time response, network navy yelled the Shu overnight delete the light microblogging.Reputation bigger need to have a strong psychological endurance, not take the soft, otherwise it will be down by long-term accumulation of negative energy.Fan Bingbing boasted to her success is not white, "I can bear much slander, would withstand the number of praise."

 

Tenth kinds of loneliness: creation

Rilke writing always isolated; Richter complain about everyone likes his art, because this like probably related to the pursuit of fame and fortune; Marquez said: "One hundred million people decided to read adepends on one person sitting alone shabby homes, knocked out 28 letters, two fingers the book, think about all that crazy. "

The creative process can not be shared with the world, only survived alone according to the body transparent day, be possible to be immortal.

To come, just to give you wonderful and beautiful.Especially women, display and compare their most valued, including the details may be enviable, but also experience and insight.Spent watching more time on the happiness of others, the more you depressed.View have a friend, spouse, colleagues pay a psychological price, they should not pay attention to these, this harmful emotional health. "Shirley Tucker said.Third solitude: Old Men 87-year-old Margaret Thatcher is now elderly and sick, his son more than a month to visit her daughter often busy few months to come.Margaret Thatcher regretted it, if time could go back, she will give up politics for family members of the British Conservative Party, Spicer revealed in the book, "Spicer Diary.In China, the concept of raising children in old age is the gradual failure, most often to get along: children making a living, the elderly take care of the grandchildren play a residual value.After retirement, most elderly people have lost social identity, and also reduce the social.Spring Festival this year, a 68-year-old Dalian old woman at home alone, lonely to press the toilet to play two months, swept away 98 tons of water.Fourth alone: ​​the only child in the past, Chinese people living in the relationship of emotional contact, to face the parents and elders, brothers, sisters, wives, children, extended family and many lively.The one-child generation no brothers or sisters, relatives and less and less.Every child at the top of the pyramid of the "421" family structure, and attentive care of the whole family.Pushing and shoving between the children frolic total in the first minute by adults to stop, who are not allowed their own children suffer, the only way to reduce the physical contact.Parents want the children have playmates, but playmates have to be recognized in Hefei, and even have a website organization "baby blind" selection of playmates for their children by their parents.Chinese people pay attention to the ways of the world in the past, today many are simple omitted, except the self is more put the greater.The face of gigantic self will inevitably have a profound sense of loneliness.Fifth kinds of loneliness: to leave home in April 2012, Gou on the Boao Forum for Asia, said: "If our employees have any unreasonable demands would not be one to three as they are now '' ..." The fact is,for their livelihood, entering the city's migrant workers can only sweat and blood.Workers on the assembly line, which do not high-strength low-paying jobs.Barbaric growth in the countryside, into the factory gate, again not free, and even private life is limited, even the basic emotional needs are unable to meet.Gender imbalance in Dongguan, some factory "polygamy" is common to pregnant workers more than to be abandoned.Poor to leave home, many of them children.Sixth alone: ​​in 2011 because of the love, the unmarried women in Taiwan was 2.17 million, 2.7 million men and the average age of marriage continued to push a lot of people can not find the emotional end, even Lin Chi-ling Dia Dia said: "No boys chase Zhiling, only time chasing Zhiling. "36 months of love, low tide, the danger always exists, wear a passion difficult to get along, the women blame men do not keep the oath, the men blame the women do not like first, the partner is often more lonely than no partner.French serial shooting suspect Mohammed the Meila He's lawyers to take the emotional reason when the argument: "Meila He divorce before the attack, irritation, he certainly feel like 'a lone wolf' crime."seventh solitude: I do not believe the wisdom of the Chinese people how much is used to harm each other?Waste oil, I have a fake honey, you sold the tainted milk I sell beef staining pork.In order to fame and fortune did not hesitate in cahoots, became public would say is the industry's unspoken rules.Food insecurity, education is a fake charity more than a show, fame does not match the real ... a person who grew up to become a skeptical attitude towards the process of gradually all.Eighth alone: ​​high-rise concrete jungle occupied the city, home l on the air, into a building.Lost the exchange of contacts between people, everyone carefully to lock the security door.The city is full of geometric sense, those designed in order to create wonders from more and more of Brasilia dull city, immense volume, there is no nerve endings, the individuals in which to feel lost, like a man in the moonso lonely. "(Marshall Berman language) Today's city managers only hope that the traffic flow smooth, brightly lit at night, people keep a safe distance.Ninth kinds of loneliness: celebrity Eason Chan singing "lonely patients feel really lonely."A couple of years ago I would dare to take the subway, but did not dare, as if to see that people will feel fear, do not know how to deal with." Concerned about the attitudes, is a powder you a call you.Both
2012 Pritzker Architecture Prize, the architect Wang Shu mixed feelings: "I am so many years in the exploration process, feel a bit lonely, but if in good faith to think about, work carefully to adhere to the ideal for a long enough time.then the final there will be a certain result. "

 

Variety of digital devices every day to accompany us on the Internet is full of colorful audio-visual, a man said he left the computer to sleep, often lying in bed to read the phone.Wen Sun Linlin @ go rice on the microblogging interesting words, who would not think she had determined to die.Dinner on the stranger smiling delivery to business cards, who would not think of depression has become the world's fourth largest disease.Science and technology are updated daily, a variety of digital devices every day to accompany us to fill the originally used to emptiness, boredom, daze time, and even occupation of the original should be used to work, talk, sleep time.Sexy virtual girlfriend online games, microblogging can lead to tens of thousands of people are concerned, the drama of the video sites do not insert ads, online store 24 hours' ... on the Internet is full of colorful audio-visual, people do not see unhappy.a man says he left the computer to sleep, often lying in bed to read the phone.As the Massachusetts Institute of Technology professor Shirley Tucker wrote in "together alone", we seem to be a stranger in a strange world."How you feel How does it feel? / When you are self-contained, homeless / like an outsider, it would seem a Rolling Stone." Bob Dylan used to sing "Like a Rolling Stone" in the multi-like today, his eyes glued to the screen.Voices buzz, however, we got the feeling more alone: ​​every few minutes to see a cell phone, and constantly refresh the microblogging see a friend in the doing, the message was not immediately reply to feel depressed and disturbed ... who Gone with the WindThe code in the wind about our emotions on the table, everyone bow to play with the phone or tablet PC, the topic often focus on the social networking site that is audible and what is happening commence.Why do we feel more and more lonely?Because we rely on technology rather than each other, envy of others and to belittle ourselves, and nothing to the elderly who rely only child growing up, because some people from their homes, without emotion, because of a lack of trust in our society, the lack of recognition of the city, because some peoplereputation tired, for the creation of isolation, because a child suffering from autism, because people choose spared.Despite the benefits with the predicament we face today are unprecedented, and the emotional needs of human beings has never changed, these 12 kinds of lonely confirmed the anxiety of the Chinese people today, they are trot all the way to the pursuit of newer and better way of life, but in strange the way into the hustle and bustle of loneliness.Hera Barr's novel "too noisy lonely" is a lonely monologue of scrap yards packaged workers, he worked alone in a dirty basement for 35 years, most hearty word paper discarded armed into the mindpeople.This carefully brewing a 20-year-old story, in fact, the Hera Baltic to face the hustle and bustle of the lonely given solution - rather than on top of the garbage of society fall into chaos and panic. ""Because I was fortunate to man alone, I was never alone, I'm just alone, living alone in a dense thinking, because I was a bit arrogant, is infinite and eternal arrogance molecules, while the infinite and eternal, perhaps like methis section alone: ​​rely on technology instead of another "think you, please contact me 013 701 059 553".Streets in Shenzhen in December 2000, the artist He set up a neon signs to attract hundreds of strangers a phone call.In October 2011 lovelorn American Jeff · 罗格斯戴尔,, also do a similar thing, he will be the phone number posted all over New York, and actually received 6.5 Wantong calls.Calls varied, sell, look for the one-night stand, talking about ideas, there are lonely smell the same smell from.Today, the virtual identity more than the true identity of the symbol and identification.In real life I do not know you, but reported that the Internet name, found that I had been concerned about you.The first step in interpersonal communication is not my add your microblogging is that you add my QQ, online ordering, online games, basic communication by shaking micro letter, even intimate contact can be done via video, as long as their own feelings are true, no onecare with their own connection is not a dog.Reliance on the network, but also make us a precise target consumers.Looked at the Amazon recommended the purchase record, "you might be interested in, really will have an understanding of moved.The second alone: ​​no one better than me Instagram this type of camera tool to beautify the prosaic life legend, the sun came out for the onlookers envy.Shirley Tucker to show off known as the "presentation anxiety.Filled with a large number of such "anxiety" network you watch everyone regarded the dark side of the switch to the tenth alone: ​​autism and depression

Worldwide 67 million children with autism, developed autism cases showing the explosive rise in the past 20 years.In China in 2011, only Guangzhou resident population of about 70,000 children with autism, but also increased year by year.

Scott Selleck, Professor of the University of Pennsylvania, said: "The genetic and environmental factors each bear half the blame." Autism is not because the people around cold, but a disease.Similarly, depression is not just a bad mood so simple depression torture six years, singer Yang Kun said "On the one hand, in particular, eager to communicate with people, on the other hand has been particularly eager to a person.

325 female college student persistence @ Kevin Tsai seeking response, network navy yelled the Shu overnight delete the light microblogging.Reputation bigger need to have a strong psychological endurance, not take the soft, otherwise it will be down by long-term accumulation of negative energy.Fan Bingbing boasted, her success is not in vain, "I can stand much slander withstand the number of praise. Species 10 alone: ​​the creation of Rilke writing always isolated; Richter complain about peoplepeople like his art, because this is like probably with the fame and fortune chasing; Marquez said: "One hundred million people decided to read one depends on one person sitting alone shabby homes, with 28 letters, twofinger knocked out of the book, think of all feel crazy. "The creative process can not be shared with the world, only survived alone according to the body transparent day, be possible to be immortal.2012 Pritzker Architecture Prize, the architect Wang Shu mixed feelings: "I am so many years in the exploration process, feel a bit lonely, but if in good faith to think about, work carefully to adhere to the ideal for a long enough time.alone: ​​then finally there will be some results 10 of the 67 million children with autism autism and depression over the world, the past 20 years, cases of autism in developed countries showing the explosive rise.In China in 2011, only Guangzhou resident population of about 70,000 children with autism, but also increased year by year.Scott Selleck, Professor of the University of Pennsylvania, said: "The genetic and environmental factors each bear half the blame." Autism is not because the people around cold, but a disease.Similarly, depression is not just a bad mood so simple depression torture six years, singer Yang Kun said "On the one hand, in particular, eager to communicate with people, on the other hand has been particularly eager to a person.Twelfth kinds of loneliness: Self-absorption "I experienced real loneliness, this feeling overwhelmed everything." March 27, 2012, sitting single bathyscaphs sneak into the 11000 m deep Mariana Trench, the U.S. director Cameronsaid.Today, fewer and fewer people to stand alone, but readily pick up that easy to get fun.The lack of affordability of the face of externally imposed exclusion, in order not alone, preferring not free, including to accept that they do not enjoy the lifestyle, friends and social attitudes.The gentleman must be careful its independence also.Lonely efforts for questioning the meaning of life is still worth it to face the truth of life, longer lonely will receive compensation."I feel lonely very happy, such as 12:00, you open a book, smell the fragrance of the ink feel others do not have to." Cui said.
 

Twelfth kinds of loneliness: spared

"I appreciate the real loneliness, this feeling overwhelmed everything." March 27, 2012, sit the single bathyscaphs sneak into the 11000 m deep Mariana Trench U.S. director Cameron said.

Today, fewer and fewer people to stand alone, but readily pick up that easy to get fun.The lack of affordability of the face of externally imposed exclusion, in order not alone, preferring not free, including to accept that they do not enjoy the lifestyle, friends and social attitudes.

The gentleman must be careful its independence also.Lonely efforts for questioning the meaning of life is still worth it to face the truth of life, longer lonely will receive compensation.

"I feel lonely very happy, such as 12:00, you open a book, smell the fragrance of the ink feel others do not have to." Cui said.

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