Most people have, by now, heard about the bucket list - a list of things you want to be, do and have before you 'kick the bucket'. You may well have a bucket list of your own - I always encourage my coaching clients, course attendees and blog readers to compile one. But what interests me the most is not so much what you have on your bucket list, as what you've left off it...
What things have you left off your bucket list because you feel them to be too frivolous, or too trivial, or too expensive or too self-serving to put on there?
What have you left off because you would feel embarrassed to let anyone know that you wanted it?
What have you left off because you feel sure you'll never get it?
What have you left off because you've been denying it yourself for so long that it's become a habit?
What have you left off because someone made you feel stupid, or wrong, or bad, or mad, or ashamed, or guilty for wanting it? (Assuming that it's not illegal or would hurt or injure someone else if you were to do it.)
What things have you left off your bucket list because you feel them to be too frivolous, or too trivial, or too expensive or too self-serving to put on there?
What have you left off because you would feel embarrassed to let anyone know that you wanted it?
What have you left off because you feel sure you'll never get it?
What have you left off because you've been denying it yourself for so long that it's become a habit?
What have you left off because someone made you feel stupid, or wrong, or bad, or mad, or ashamed, or guilty for wanting it? (Assuming that it's not illegal or would hurt or injure someone else if you were to do it.)
Just wondering...